yes... actually i was just reflecting to my best friend that it's been a year already (since today is her birthday and i told her last year her bday was lucky for me when we got the visa, it continued to be lucky for me, got an AIP (bonus) payout from my work... not a huge amount, but enough to make a respectable dent in my credit card bill LOL)... i loves March 4th
this year has been interesting.. a lot of ups, and yes, a lot of downs too... we had some rough spots... all and all we've come out on top (there were times when i doubted it, to be truthful), but we've made a lot of progress and are really starting to function as a family... since he was coming into my already existing family (2 kids from a previous marriage and we have one together), he went from being a single jamaican dude to a married father of 3 overnight... a lot of adjustments for him... but he's taking it in stride and i love him and appreciate him more every day for it... sometimes i want to hit him over the head with one brick... but in the end we've managed to come out on top with no permanent damage and more in love than ever i think....
awwwww....
i don't get mushy much lol
honestly since our wait was done together (we moved (back) to jamaica together in November 09), the entire process has been so anticlimatical... i do understand the separation and the wait (we went through almost all of my pregnancy apart), but i've never been able to relate to so many of the "awwwww" moments i hear about... the elation of getting that call, the anticipation of the next call, the tearful reunion.... i never got all that... our moves were done on our terms and planned for months... Having the short processing time we did actually sort of messed up our plans (to stay until the kids had finished their school year), we stuck it out on the island for more than 2 months after we got the visa, rather than booking first flight out...
I have said in the past, i wish i could give some of you guys a few months of my timeline since we really weren't the ones living thousands of miles apart and wishing and praying day in and day out at that point in time.... all seemed so unfair to me... looking back at this day, i do remember all those thoughts and feelings too...
but if you're still waiting, hang in there, it all happens in due time, and you too will get your chance to want to throw things at him/her before you know it
lol