Unless you have been in someone else shoes, you are unable to truly understand. I have had a few friends that have gone through this process and I was always very supportive. I never realized just how difficult it was until I did it myself. If I can be of support to anyone that is going through this I would love to be, because friends and family are supportive, but the feeling we have waiting for our loved ones and putting our futures on pause... those are just hard to truly feel unless you go though it.
Up until we got the phone requested my husband's passport, I did not realize just how heavy the weight had been on my shoulders. I sometimes would feel like I am just existing without him. Get up everyday, go to work, go through the processes and do it all over again..... Just waiting for that next visit together. I have been blessed do not get me wrong. I am living a happy life and was positive about the future. However, I didn't realize how much I felt like my life was just on 'pause'! I am sure most of you get exactly what I am saying.
I wish I had found this forum sooner as it really gives hope and inspiration. I can't wait to share my husband's landing story with all of you and I can not wait to read about yours. All I can say is that the Kingston office seems to be moving 'quicktime'! I don't know who, what or why someone lit a fire underneath them... but I am thankful and I have all of you in my prayers too.