Absolutely! It just boggles my mind that they'll allow somebody to move here without ever experiencing the climate, the lifestyle, and even whether or not they can actually live with you for extended period of time… They don't even allow people to get to know each other, but yet they'll allow someone to come over after pretty much forcing someone to get married earlier than some people possibly would have, just so they can have the relationship together? I just think it makes more sense to put more regulations on temporary resident visas or visitors Visas so someone can get a true feeling for what they are coming to. Allow someone to expirience "life" together as a couple, just follow through and make people accountable. I have our kids here, all alone. My 7 month old has only met his dad once... It's so sad and wrong. He has no criminal record, and no medical conditions, no running history, and comes from a great family. I myself am a professional person, I have a good job I've had for 11 years now. Own my own home, car and maintain all this on my own. As he cannot support our family at this time. Yet they STILL won't allow him to visit?! And I paid twice to be denied. Sickens me. I had our baby over FaceTime. How would they like to be in that position?!
Spartabarbie that's so heartbreaking, terrible situation they left you in, heartless indeed, I'm so hopeful that they are getting ready to issue a pile of ppr's. How can they say they care about families when they let something like that happen?!
So I really do sympathize with you hon.
