suzanne2014 said:
I just started my immigration journey 2.5 months ago...and I'm already losing hope urgh after being together 8 years and him being taken away from the family and having too wait a possible 2 years I definatley need some hope... and being 2.5 months and nothing from immigration I'm just frustrated
Keep strong Suzanne! I am sure that you will hear something very soon! It has been two years and four months since by husband has been in Canada. He returned before his visitor visa expired in January 2013 when we were dating. It was April 2014 when we got married. This coming week will be our one year anniversary. I never imagined that we would have to spend our first one apart. My hope and faith is in the fact that we will spend every next one together forever.
The waiting can be a lot of pressure and we just keep going to work and living our lives apart. Until my husband got his call for his passport a couple of weeks ago, I did not even realize how much weight had been on my shoulders. And now it is whole new set of feelings.... when is he going to come? What will it be like for him? All the things I need to get done? Did they really want the passport to put a visa in it or is something wrong? Did the passport actually get to the embassy? I try not to think about it too much but sometimes I lie in bed awake wondering if everything will just go smoothly for the rest of our journey.
I tried to explain to my husband last night that I will not be able to relax 100% until he is on Canadian soil. Then I will probably just cry tears of joy for a few weeks !!
You have made it this far and you will make it till he reaches! Keep busy, spend time with friends and family, try your best to take your mind of it all when you can!
I had a close friend go through this process a couple years ago. I used to be so sympathetic to your journey and supportive. I realize now that she is there for me, no one can really known what you are going through unless you have been through this process yourself. Sometimes when other people ask me I can't even find the words to explain it. I thought I knew all the emotions one could experience, but I believe now there are a few that I still need to figure out during this sponsorship process.
Sending all of you out there waiting for your loves ones to join you Canada or waiting in Jamaica to come up to Canada... nothing but positive love and light. It may be a struggle, but I had said since day one it is just a matter of time and if we can survive this we will become stronger together as husband and wife.