CanadianWifey89
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- Nov 25, 2013
- 17
- Category........
- Visa Office......
- KGN
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- December 11th 2013
- AOR Received.
- January 3rd, 2014 - CPC-M & February 4th 2014 from KGN...POS AOR
- File Transfer...
- January 14, 2014
- Interview........
- Waived
- Passport Req..
- November 2014...and again in March 19, 2015
- VISA ISSUED...
- Confirmed as approved on May 1/15, issued May 4, 2015
- LANDED..........
- June 19, 2015
Wow - I know what you mean. My hubby finally raised his fears for leaving also...mostly because he's the backbone for his family (mother and younger siblings) so he's worried about their wellbeing when he leaves. We spoke and he knows that coming here isn't a black box lol we can definitely make trips and I'm all for helping his family out because I love them like crazy!Ninirae said:I got to experience last night the whole "I am Jamaican, hear me roar" and "Jamaica is my home and NOBODY including my WIFE can make me leave" and also the wonderful "I will NEVER change to suit a different society. NEVER! And if any people don't like it, them can go s*ck their muda”
Please note that this all stemmed from me telling him the landing story and asking him how he feels about leaving Jamaica and to be very honest about it.... and so the rant began. The entire time he was ranting, I sat quietly just staring at him (we were Skyping). Once he finally became quiet, he looked back and me and said “what?! Gwan, seh sumn about it.” I just kept looking at him until he finally broke out laughing and admitted that he just relistened to that entire conversation in his head and realized how he sounded.
We then went forward with him apologizing to me and him being more understanding and asking about how often we will travel and is he able to call home as soon as he arrives in Canada to let his mother know he has arrived safe and so on and so forth.
C&T, all I could do was repeat in my head “don't take it personal, don't take it personal” lol
The good news is, he is FINALLY opening up about his fears and anxieties about leaving the only place he has ever known. This man actually thought I was going to drop him in Canada and just leave him to fend for himself. I couldn't believe it!!!! I am his only person in Canada. Me and my family, is he insane! But I do understand his fears now because of your landing story.
I know I have ranted and vented a bit today, but I am wanting people to know that just because other people like to pretend their marriage is a bed of roses, lets be honest, we all have our thorns and that's what makes it worth it in the end.
DO NOT BE DISCOURAGED!!!! :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*
Thankfully - he also has family here whom I'm close to and meet/chill with frequently...I'm hoping that having a piece of home here helps in the transition.