Kingston,Jamaica

[oneandonly]

Mi deh ya hun! Lol

Hubbys mom is in the hospital, wont b coming out for a few weeks....I kinda felt something was coming up hence the reason why I did not book his ticket...gut instincts....so we prob have to put off his flight for couple weeks as hubby wants to be there for his Mom. He is soooooo upset and was telling me baby, the devil hates when we link heads cuz we have such a strong connection, and my whole mind and heart was into coming next week and now this...he is soooo vex abt it, but I was telling him I understand and I think it's the best choice because it definitely would not feel good for the both of us knowing hes here miles away, and his Mom is down there in incredible pain..

His mom is diabetic....she was outside getting ready to wash and stepped on a nail which went all the way into her foot...her foot is now infected which caused it to swell and be filled with puss, so now she has to get a surgical intervention which requires draining, hubby is her only child and I told him her foot being in pain then her only son flying out is not a good combination....

Hes now at the hospital beside his mother.

Cee,

I'm sorry to hear about your mother in law may she get well be healthy soon. Good advice for hubby to stay there until she heals. You and your family will be in my prayers.

 

[oneandonly]

thanks doll i am just an emotional wreck today
come on kingston give someone some good news give me something to dance about

Ready,

Keep the faith girl remain strong remember the memories you shared. Big hug to you

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

cee my prayers are with you and your family in this time
the devil is a liar and he cant spoil your joy ....
your mother in law will be well again and you and hubby will have your reunion

oneandonly ---thanks doll bless you hugz

 

[carm_cnd]

Good Morning
how long does it take to get the notes back? I just submitted for them this morning.

 

[Miss-her-crazy]

Loves me some Culture music too. Next time we'll plan for all of us to join at the same time. Tonight was a spare of the moment party!!

Good night MHC!!!

Thanks everyone for such a fun evening.

Jah blessing

 

[Miss-her-crazy]

Good Morning famz,

My husband isn't a denied refugee he just overstayed in Canada. You guys might not have a ban I don't know the officer at the airport would of told you when you signed a paper before you got on the plane. There was 3 types of ban in his sheet ban for 1 yr, ban for 2 or ban all together. They just have him 1 yr from Canada before he could apply for a work visa to Canada. My situation is a little different then yours and chickie.

Ooh ok zeen but his 1 yr up right

 

[Nevaeha]

Good Morning
how long does it take to get the notes back? I just submitted for them this morning.

30 days.

 

[Nevaeha]

Thanks for this Ready! Really put things into perspective for all of us here still waiting to be reunited...

Its very true.....marriage is a journey, it's a job....although our significant others will one day be beside us, doesn't mean we'l constantly be sitting on a silver platter.... Marriage is a commitment and it does take alot of work, but once two people are inlove and set their minds on making things work no matter what it will work.....

Haters??? BAHAHAHA.... I honestly live for them...they are the reasons why I'm still standing.we can NEVERRR stop people from talking, but we can stop ourselves from caring what they might think or say...I honestly think one of the biggest relationship killers is people's mouths, but it can only ruin a good relationship if you allow it to....these words are not only for my ladies n gentlemen on this forum but for myself aswell...

On a brighter note.....Kingston, you've been wayyyy to quiet this week.....ring some phones, send out more pprs and updates!!!

You are a very understanding daughter-in-law, Cee. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. :-*

 

[Miss-her-crazy]

yes he told me.....he grew up on Maxfield but we would put him in the country this time round lol we will definitely link when i come down in April


We have to for sure

 

[Nevaeha]

thanks doll i am just an emotional wreck today

<<BIG HUG>>> & a :-* from me to you.

 

[oneandonly]

cee my prayers are with you and your family in this time
the devil is a liar and he cant spoil your joy ....
your mother in law will be well again and you and hubby will have your reunion

oneandonly ---thanks doll bless you hugz

Welcome ready xoxo

 

[oneandonly]

Ooh ok zeen but his 1 yr up right

It will be up nov 2013 it has only been 3 months since I applied

 

[Keke78]

Good morning yardi , I came across this forum when I was searching for some Jamaican news as to how Kingston process their application. Its been very interesting and entertaining reading all the post. Seems like one big family with many highs and lows. My category is different from everyone here I came to Canada November 2008 as a live in caregiver. Got married July 2010 and applied for PR with my husband as my dependent December 2010.

So talk about waiting to live with your spouse. It took CIC 26months for me just to get approval in principle. I just got that Feb 12,2013. Bear in mind when I entered the caregiver program processing times were 6-8 months from the time you apply to when you become landed (even the processing of your family)

Our files have just been transfered to kingston (Feb 12,2013) and they should be contacting my husband for his process to begin before I can become landed.( Our papers are process jointly) Well God only knows when they will send him his first letter. But we hope and pray just as we have been doing for the past 26 going 27 months.

We have been married for almost 3 years and the most time we have spent together ( thanks to CIC Backlog) was about 3 and a half WEEKS thats when I got fed up one day last September and took off the following day . Literally one day notice lol.

The reason for my post is to just share with everyone who are discourage and think their processing is taking FOREVER to hang in there. (sometimes when you think you have it bad their is someone else who might be in worst condition) You can imagine the frustration fi a Jamaica man married almost three years and no wife! This takes a huge toll on our relationship and its only the Almighty that a sustain. This morning I woke up to a text from him from the bible ' and God said it is not good for man to be alone..........) I can only imagine which side a the bed him wake up on this morning but obviously lonely and frustration was in the bed wid him.

I would trade my shoes with nuff a uno here with the year plus timeline lol . not sure anyone would want my shoe though. yet me sure people waiting longer than me. So next time u feel like bawl or give up just hang in peeps. things could be a whole lot worst

Ps. Please ignore my google document below my post I am apart live in caregiver forum where we share we time line but few Jamaicans ( full a Philippines )

Hello Cardraw - thank you so much for stopping by and sharing this. I really needed this - trust me. This process is starting to get the best of me even though I haven't been waiting as long as others.

 

[Keke78]

Good afternoon famjam!!

How is everyone doing? I don't know what's going on with Kgn....they have been really quiet

 

[Anada]

You're Mother In-law will soon be up and at it in no time Cee!!! but at least u know thats the only thing stopping u right now, and that ur in the clear and he IS on his way right after he makes sure Mama is alright!!!

Hang in there wont be much longer and xo!!!!