Miss-her is the link i was telling you about: http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/information/offices/missions/kingston.asp
under enquires, click on the link for case-specific and make sure she puts your file #, DOB and your name in there.
Send in your wife's info for each time she has come down here, like a copy of her ticket or the itinerary. I also send them every few months all my western union receipts to show that I am supporting him, I sent them pictures of my trips to jamaica also, mostly the ones where i met his family etc....