Hard not to think it’s because I am white and he is black.. we applied February 9 2023 and I went to see him at the end of march 2023 for 10 days, so two months after we got married. We haven’t seen each other since because we didn’t anticipate being in this position still waiting almost 8 months later
You could try this. I don't know if it made a difference in my case, But my wife's application was completed days later. I sent a webform updating my relationship information. Include information from after you applied up until today. In mine, I included an Air Canada ticket and all the support payments I had sent my wife since I applied. About two weeks after I sent the webform I received an email to say the information had been added to my wife's file. Then a few days later she received the pre-arrival letter and passport request. I don't know if it was a coincidence or the webform forced the officer to look at our file. But it can't hurt to try.