I am saying applying outland seems to indicate foreign born spouse cannot stay in the country long term until PR is approved, that is why it is outland - they are not meant to be in Canada, as far as I understand, on the principle of the visa. There are economic costs to both of us going to Canada before PR is approved and I would like to limit that as much as we are able to.
This is wrong, you and your spouse can go to Canada. Sure, there are costs. You decide what works for you.
A foreign born spouse does need a visa, otherwise what is the function of immigration systems? An eTA is still a visa. And PR is a visa.
No, an ETA is not a visa. eTA is used for those who benefit from visa waivers. Legally a PR is not a visa either, but no point discussing terminology.
Of course, different people have different burdens and pressures to different degrees; the immigration system is complex, time consuming, stressful and expensive. I wasn't saying what you have said above. There is an emotional cost to many, especially if they are separate, whatever the reasons. I'm not really sure why it seems exception is being taken regarding my comments. I am sorry if this has upset you and it was not my intention.
I apologise for my tone, was a bit frustrated that your complaints about bureaucracy were rather overdone when you hadn't even checked whether a visa is even needed.
You have three options that are really not bad (although none are perfect):
1) Just wait and move when your PR is approved. Travel to Canada with/without your spouse as much as you like, basically. Subject to covid requirements.
2) At any time, go with your spouse to Canada to stay, with a few disadvantages like no work permit. Both of you could go back and forth as you wish, more or less.
3) Withdraw your outland app, go to Canada with spouse on visa, and apply inland, staying in Canada while processed; work permit would take several months (check the inland threads however for update on processing times for this) but possibly faster than PR in outland process. You'd be starting your PR application over but since your outland was only just submitted, may not be a big difference.
Good luck.