What happens after you receive a notification letter from CIC informing you that your file has been closed because your sponsor withdrew his sponsorship application?
Here's my story:
I came to Canada on a visitor's visa three years ago and continually extended my stay to help an aunt of mine that was ill. During this time I met a "seemingly" decent, lovable man and we fell for each other. We shared the common goals of going back to school, getting our careers on track and starting a family so as you imagine we moved in together and got married. Everything seemed fine until a few months ago when my money ran out. Where did I get money you might ask...I had a great profession in my home country so I migrated with quite a bit of savings and my family DIDN'T hesitate to ensure I was financially stable at all times. That being said I'm the kind of person that believes each partner should contribute to the growth and happiness of the union and therefore stupidly made him aware of my savings. He was seasonally employed at the time so I volunteered to cover all wedding related expenses, paid the bills and only recently paid for a diploma course while awaiting my open work permit...that will never come. I have exhausted all my savings and he's now deserted me and halted the sponsorship process. He has exploited me financially and I'm now left to fend for myself...over $20,000 cash just gone in the blink of an eye. Had the processing time been the 6-8 months that was expected perhaps none of this would have happened (it's been 12 months since our application was received by CIC).
Then again, I should have seen it coming but like many I was blindfolded by what seemed to be that stupid thing called love. A few months ago he threatened to go on Welfare and ruin everything if I didn't give him money. I took the form away and obliged with hopes that he would come around once I was able to work and travel as he hoped but of course that was not enough. It soon became a habit and as expected I started running low on cash. Once I wasn't able to give anymore he started neglecting me as I had feared. Now, after months of belittling me because I chose to go to college instead of allowing him to impregnate me and become a stay at home mom he just decided to cancel everything without my knowledge. He's gone weeks without speaking to me, he doesn't answer my calls, he doesn't respond to my messages. I now have absolutely no means of contacting him. I'm just screwed! I'm currently staying at a family friend but I don't know how long it'll be before I've overstayed my welcome. My family cut off all ties when I decided to move in with him because of religious differences so I can't go back there. I'm confused, depressed, disappointed and lost.
Does anyone know what happens next?
Any advice would be appreciated at this time, please and thanks in advance.
Here's my story:
I came to Canada on a visitor's visa three years ago and continually extended my stay to help an aunt of mine that was ill. During this time I met a "seemingly" decent, lovable man and we fell for each other. We shared the common goals of going back to school, getting our careers on track and starting a family so as you imagine we moved in together and got married. Everything seemed fine until a few months ago when my money ran out. Where did I get money you might ask...I had a great profession in my home country so I migrated with quite a bit of savings and my family DIDN'T hesitate to ensure I was financially stable at all times. That being said I'm the kind of person that believes each partner should contribute to the growth and happiness of the union and therefore stupidly made him aware of my savings. He was seasonally employed at the time so I volunteered to cover all wedding related expenses, paid the bills and only recently paid for a diploma course while awaiting my open work permit...that will never come. I have exhausted all my savings and he's now deserted me and halted the sponsorship process. He has exploited me financially and I'm now left to fend for myself...over $20,000 cash just gone in the blink of an eye. Had the processing time been the 6-8 months that was expected perhaps none of this would have happened (it's been 12 months since our application was received by CIC).
Then again, I should have seen it coming but like many I was blindfolded by what seemed to be that stupid thing called love. A few months ago he threatened to go on Welfare and ruin everything if I didn't give him money. I took the form away and obliged with hopes that he would come around once I was able to work and travel as he hoped but of course that was not enough. It soon became a habit and as expected I started running low on cash. Once I wasn't able to give anymore he started neglecting me as I had feared. Now, after months of belittling me because I chose to go to college instead of allowing him to impregnate me and become a stay at home mom he just decided to cancel everything without my knowledge. He's gone weeks without speaking to me, he doesn't answer my calls, he doesn't respond to my messages. I now have absolutely no means of contacting him. I'm just screwed! I'm currently staying at a family friend but I don't know how long it'll be before I've overstayed my welcome. My family cut off all ties when I decided to move in with him because of religious differences so I can't go back there. I'm confused, depressed, disappointed and lost.
Does anyone know what happens next?
Any advice would be appreciated at this time, please and thanks in advance.
