Hi Ninjapirate,
thanks for your input. I do think I am in a different boat but I'm not sure if that's good or bad! We sent in whatever documentation we had the first time they requested additional documentation. Then about 2 weeks ago, we got another letter setting up an interview and asking for similar documention. Some of the stuff were things they asked for in the first letter but we didn't have so we didnt' send it. Like joint bank accounts statments, or cell phone statements for my husband (he doesn't even have one)--in any case, they asked for them again. IN any case, I have now written a letter stating why we don't have some of these things but that nonetheless, our marriage is geniuine for other reasons (i.e. actual caring and love). My husband is going to do the same. He doesn't write English very well, but I told him just write it in his first language, who cares?
I'm not sure why I should call the officer in charge of our case....I will if you think it will help. But can you tell me what I should say when I call other than I am confused as to why they are asking for all this documentation? Please give me some advise, we have our interview this Thursday and I am getting nervous. I just keep telling myself that the truth is on our side and that nothing else matters...but still.....!!!
If anyone else can give me some information as to what to expect in the actual interview. Do they interview us separately, together..one after the other??