Sadly AckTivity this letter was written by my family.....AckTivity said:Egads. This is a huge fear for me. I could see my ex doing something like this if she thought of it. Thankfully I don't think she will, because it would be an awful lot of work for her to figure out where to send information. Not that we couldn't prove our relationship but what a horrible thing to be in limbo like that over someone being spiteful, for whatever reason.