QuebecOkie
Champion Member
- Sep 23, 2012
- 47
- Category........
- Visa Office......
- Vegreville
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- 23-10-2012
- AOR Received.
- 28-01-2013
- Med's Done....
- 10-04-2013
- Passport Req..
- AIP 30-08-2013
- VISA ISSUED...
- DM 30-08-2013
- LANDED..........
- 10-10-2013
^This. There is no perfect country. All have their strengths and their shortcomings. What's important is to educate yourself on what you're getting into when you contemplate a huge life decision like immigration (to ANY country). I could easily sit here and say Canada sucks because I deal daily with a language and cultural barrier (we're in Northern Québec), I can't work, and I don't have many friends. But I don't say these things. I knew what I was getting into when I chose to stay with my husband. I knew I wouldn't be able to visit my family while our inland application was in progress. I knew I would not be likely to ever find work here (not even fast food!) because I don't speak French. Instead of focusing on the negative impacts the move has had on my life, I look at these things as challenges. I work hard to learn French, and I get used to not being able to buy new clothes or drive a car as nice as the one I sold before the move. I accept that, even though I'm almost done with the immigration process, I'll never get to see my family as much as I'd like, because airfare is expensive here in Canada.ACS said:Please do not take offense, but in my opinion, it is you who is perhaps at fault for not doing more research about the Immigration process before you made your decision in which manner to proceed with it. Everyone here made a choice to apply Inland or Outland based on what their priorities were. We were all aware that the process is not an easy one either way, but you make the choice to be separated from your loved one and continue working while you wait for approval, or to be with your significant other and unable to work.
So in NO way am I blinded, and I think “my picture” is pretty darn big......
If I had a terminal degree and a lot of expertise in a high-paying field, I don't know if I would have made the decision to immigrate. I would have had to weigh the decision very carefully; was my love for my husband worth trading for professional satisfaction? Etc. I'm happy I didn't have to make such a tough decision.