I really like this quote, it's just so true. I have been saying this to myself since I read it for the first time a while ago.Love_Young said:QUOTE OF THE DAY (Mon. Dec 20, 10)
"Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections."
Thank you for updating us with the good news!perrinsa said:CIC processing update this morning: working on applications received on March 28, 2010
Nothing for me yet, but anyday now!!
I will update it later this afternoon. Having to wrap up Christmas gifts here soon so I will do it as soon as I can.Asta said:Love Young, wheres the chart? can u upload old one most recent one? i cant find it hehe! dont have to update.
@boasorte: I called the help line and asked them specifically. I had to prove it was me, but other than that it was straight forward. After hearing how other people's medicals were "misplaced" I thought it prudent to check on mine.I have a question for you, how did you get to know that your medical is enclosed to your file?
i know what u mean! anyways u can help ur hubby just being there for him, keeping his mood up, taking care of him remember ur own words - think of what u already have, how fortunate u are. u are living with ur hubby, he is by ur side. thats is awesome comparing with lets say my 5 years long distance relationship in the past. ugh.. also some people cant even find their other half, a loved one. so be happy that u have him! keep ur moods up, be strong and have fun during holidays! keep ur chin up!Love_Young said:Having one of those rough days. I just want to know their decision but at the same time I don't, anyone know what I mean? I mean I just want to hurry up and start our lives already. The wait is really REALLY starting to get to me now. I am tired of having to make temporary plans all the time, always stuck in place, and not being able to contribute to help out my hubby. We are married and as a spouse I should be able to provide for our family just as well. I hate it but the tension caused me to lash out at hubby even though he hasn't done anything and there isn't anything he can help to fix this rough process. I obviously apologized later because I love him and I just hate that this process is bringing out the worst in me. I am not only taking it out on myself but starting to take it on people who don't deserve it. This type of life isn't normal. Most days I can pep talk myself but I just can't. Not today. I want to be approved so badly but terrified that it might not happen. Everyone says I have nothing to worry about but I have everything in the world to worry about, I could lose my chance of being with my hubby. How is that not anything to worry about? Ugh...guys I just don't know if I can take 4 more months of this. I am losing my mind and dignity. :-X
Sounds just like our lifesdeer30 said:Love Young ~ my husband and I are going crazy too! We can't stand it -especially because we are stuck in my parents basement until aip
Our lives haven't started yet either. We are just waiting and waiting......
You must keep your mind on something else. I know it's easier said than done - (I check CIC twice a day!) but you'll feel better afterwards and the time will go by faster.