I've been sponsored by my husband who is a Canadian citizen. We've been married for almost 2 years and 4 months. Last week, my husband abandoned me. I had no idea that he would leave me or even suspected that he had a plan of leaving me.
Our papers for the sponsorship was filled in 2007and until now, it is still in process.
Since the start of this year, our relationship has been stressful. His family, specially his mother wanted me to work under the table but I refuse to do because I dont want to do anything illegal. His parents are too involved in our family life to the point where they control our plans. An example is our 2nd wedding anniversary, which my family in Guelph celebrated with a meal and his parents called and he left just like that because they wanted him to drive yet again back to Toronto. Like any family issues this caused much stress in our relationship to the point I even consulted a psychologist because I cannot handle the stress that his family is giving us. Even the psychologist is so worried about what my daughter (from my previous relationship and is included to the sponsorship) who is 14 years old and witnessing the stress that involves between my husband and my in-laws.
Now, I dont know what to do. I am still here staying at the apartment where we were renting.
Last Monday, I went to the office of the MP in our area. I was able to talk to his assistant. She told me that I have no choice but to leave Canada, consult a lawyer or apply for humanitaria compasionate.
I dont know what to do. I have nothing left for me. I cannot even pay the next month rent in our apartment. I feel Im left alone. For the past two days, I was able to talk with my husband and asked him what is wrong..He told me that his parents specially his mom thinks that I married him for convenience. I was crushed when he told me that and not defend me to his parents. He knows how sincerely I am and wanted to build a wonderful family life with him. He knows that I married him because I love him and like Ive said we've been married and together as husband and wife for 2 years and 4 months.
I have already been misinformed before and I want to know my right. I have no place to go back to my home country . My father died last year and I wasnt able to go back and give my last respect to him because of our sponsorship that is still in process. Please help me.
What should I do? what is my right? Our marriage is not for convenience. I have been honest doing the right and legal. I understand that the immigration is protecting the sponsor to those sponsoring spouse who just married a Canadian for convenience but what is my right and protection as a sponsoring spouse who married a Canadian citizen that has no intention to marry him for convenience and had been abandoned. What is left for me and my daughter? My husband and I have no issue at all it just his parents that making an issue out of nothing true at all and they are buying him. Please please help us..
Our papers for the sponsorship was filled in 2007and until now, it is still in process.
Since the start of this year, our relationship has been stressful. His family, specially his mother wanted me to work under the table but I refuse to do because I dont want to do anything illegal. His parents are too involved in our family life to the point where they control our plans. An example is our 2nd wedding anniversary, which my family in Guelph celebrated with a meal and his parents called and he left just like that because they wanted him to drive yet again back to Toronto. Like any family issues this caused much stress in our relationship to the point I even consulted a psychologist because I cannot handle the stress that his family is giving us. Even the psychologist is so worried about what my daughter (from my previous relationship and is included to the sponsorship) who is 14 years old and witnessing the stress that involves between my husband and my in-laws.
Now, I dont know what to do. I am still here staying at the apartment where we were renting.
Last Monday, I went to the office of the MP in our area. I was able to talk to his assistant. She told me that I have no choice but to leave Canada, consult a lawyer or apply for humanitaria compasionate.
I dont know what to do. I have nothing left for me. I cannot even pay the next month rent in our apartment. I feel Im left alone. For the past two days, I was able to talk with my husband and asked him what is wrong..He told me that his parents specially his mom thinks that I married him for convenience. I was crushed when he told me that and not defend me to his parents. He knows how sincerely I am and wanted to build a wonderful family life with him. He knows that I married him because I love him and like Ive said we've been married and together as husband and wife for 2 years and 4 months.
I have already been misinformed before and I want to know my right. I have no place to go back to my home country . My father died last year and I wasnt able to go back and give my last respect to him because of our sponsorship that is still in process. Please help me.
What should I do? what is my right? Our marriage is not for convenience. I have been honest doing the right and legal. I understand that the immigration is protecting the sponsor to those sponsoring spouse who just married a Canadian for convenience but what is my right and protection as a sponsoring spouse who married a Canadian citizen that has no intention to marry him for convenience and had been abandoned. What is left for me and my daughter? My husband and I have no issue at all it just his parents that making an issue out of nothing true at all and they are buying him. Please please help us..
Good luck.