In an abusive relationship while the application is in process. Need help

[Needhelp321]

Hi everyone
I got married in the beginning of this year in Canada and my husband applied for my pr in mid of this year.
I have got my owp.
All these months I have been going through a very abusive relationship my husband cheats on me, not that he is having a serious affair with anyone but he pretends to be single and flirt with other girls and ask them out. I saw msgs on his phone many times and showed my concern, in the beginning he used to apologize but now he says that's how I am u take it or leave it
He has started abusing me physically I have bruises on my body and he threatens me that he will cancel my application and kick me out of the country.
I came to this country on 10 years multiple visa, and met my husband through a common friend and dated him for almost 8 months then got married. I am sure nobody would want to suffer so much and end up losing a status in this country. Like every other person pr is important for me too but not over my dignity and self esteem. My question is if for any reason my husband withdraws my application or if I leave him and file a divorce, would I loose my multiple visa as wel? Also if I want to apply for the pr on my own at any point would I be able to apply for it after getting my application withdrawn?
Please if anybody could advice me on this would be much appreciated.

 

[canuck_in_uk]

Hi everyone
I got married in the beginning of this year in Canada and my husband applied for my pr in mid of this year.
I have got my owp.
All these months I have been going through a very abusive relationship my husband cheats on me, not that he is having a serious affair with anyone but he pretends to be single and flirt with other girls and ask them out. I saw msgs on his phone many times and showed my concern, in the beginning he used to apologize but now he says that's how I am u take it or leave it
He has started abusing me physically I have bruises on my body and he threatens me that he will cancel my application and kick me out of the country.
I came to this country on 10 years multiple visa, and met my husband through a common friend and dated him for almost 8 months then got married. I am sure nobody would want to suffer so much and end up losing a status in this country. Like every other person pr is important for me too but not over my dignity and self esteem. My question is if for any reason my husband withdraws my application or if I leave him and file a divorce, would I loose my multiple visa as wel? Also if I want to apply for the pr on my own at any point would I be able to apply for it after getting my application withdrawn?
Please if anybody could advice me on this would be much appreciated.

If you are being abused, call the police and leave him.

Your TRV will remain valid and you can apply for PR in future if you qualify.

 

[shalenabennie]

Please, please, leave. Nothing is worth that. What's worse about this, Is that he's doing it because he thinks you'll have to stay with him. What a disgusting person he is

 

[Amy mouse]

Please dont stay there are plenty of other avenues to get pr. You are more important than the application. Call cic tell them exactly what is going on get your money back and find somewhere safe then call the police and have him charged with assault

 

[Needhelp321]

Thank u everyone. U all are absolutely right. Why I am a bit reluctant in my situation because I have bought a property here to avoid paying rent also I was looking for good investment because I had enough savings from my previous job back home. He now blackmailing me and says "u will loose ur property and ill be 50% partner".
That was my hard earned money and if I lose that I will not have anything left to carry on with my life. I have a daughter from my previous marriage and he takes it as my weakness.

 

[Needhelp321]

Plus he threatens me if I call the police he will harm my daughter

 

[Needhelp321]

I will be going to the lawyer today to see if I could seek any help. I have taken pictures of the bruises though because on weekend no lawyer was available.

 

[shalenabennie]

I will be going to the lawyer today to see if I could seek any help. I have taken pictures of the bruises though because on weekend no lawyer was available.

This is horrible to hear. I searched online, and he may not be entitled to that home. Check this out, but also speak to a professional. This is what I got online...

Marital property in community property states are owned by both spouses equally (50/50). ... So, any earnings or debts originating after this time will be separate property. Any assets acquired before the marriage are considered separate property, and are owned only by that original owner.

 

[Needhelp321]

Thanks a ton for the link.
So I paid the deposit before our marriage but the final closing was done after our marriage. Would it still be considered separate property?

This is horrible to hear. I searched online, and he may not be entitled to that home. Check this out, but also speak to a professional. This is what I got online...

Marital property in community property states are owned by both spouses equally (50/50). ... So, any earnings or debts originating after this time will be separate property. Any assets acquired before the marriage are considered separate property, and are owned only by that original owner.

 

[shalenabennie]

Thanks a ton for the link.
So I paid the deposit before our marriage but the final closing was done after our marriage. Would it still be considered separate property?

I wish I knew. I don't want to tell you false information I wild definitely seek legal advice. I would hope to God not.. But absolutely nothing is worth sticking around in that crap for. Especially, if he threatened your daughter!

 

[Needhelp321]

Thank u dear

I wish I knew. I don't want to tell you false information I wild definitely seek legal advice. I would hope to God not.. But absolutely nothing is worth sticking around in that crap for. Especially, if he threatened your daughter!

 

[sajidqazi]

so sorry to hear that. I would advise to call police if he tries to harm you again and your daughter.

 

[canuck78]

If you paid the deposit you should be able to get that back if you can prove that only your money was used. Money can be made back but your husband harming you or the effect on your child watching her mother stay in an abusive relationship will have lasting effects.

Prenups are definitely something to consider in situations like this.