Alice100/Lena...you are providing him with incorrect information, obviously your intention is not to harm but the affects of this could be huge for them.
Dulman, your wife is NOT eligible to be your sponsor if she is in receipt of Welfare or an undischarged bankrupt. There is no way around this and it is not subject to interpretation. If she is on Welfare, you will be denied. There are many community programs that she can access for help (the food bank, Healthy Baby programs, sudsidized daycare, etc..) Raising a baby on your own is difficult, I know, I have raised 2 by myself...but it is not impossible. What area does your wife live in..maybe some forum members can help to connect you with appropriate community programs in her area...Good luck and god bless.
Lori