Okay, let me see. I have read all of these and the links and trying to distract a strategy from this. Some of these I would not have even found myself btw. Since I can't apply in retrospect, maybe i can send a letter explaining the mix-up with the dates and the full time I have stayed in Canada so far which is over 1300 days physical presence, along with the situation which led to me leaving the country for a year. Someone suggested in this threat but I cant seem to find who. A CJ is humane at some point hopefully? They can hardly expect one to stay in Canada waiting for the court date (up to 21 months) while the husband has to attend to family issues abroad for a year. Today I'll call the CIC to ask them if they can say anything regarding the status of my application other than "pending".