pastrj said:
you don't see how you came across as rude, insensitive amongst other things. Yes, I'm stressed because I'm sure you can relate to the process. I don't think people are here to get 'reality checks' but more information on how it works.
The same way you interpreted my response as rude and insensitive, I in turn interpreted your initial repeat polling for feedback (amargo having already given you an accurate response) as dismissive and obtuse, to say the least, and gave you honest additional feedback, which YOU again solicited.
pastrj said:
Your response would have been great , if you erased "deep breath" and "panic".
You described your state as "extremely confused and annoyed" (your words, not mine) so I don't see how my using of the word panic or suggesting deep breaths isn't relevant.
pastrj said:
And about your apology you and I both know that it's your way of patronizing. It's not sincere because you could have said it through private message and not post it here, to make it seem as if it is sincere.
it's interesting that you suggest private messaging, as I've gotten 3 of them from other members since responding to you, and all were actually supportive of what i wrote.
pastrj said:
Just a reminder, this visa forum to is help people with questions and support one another as we are all going through or have gone through the process.
Your tone reminded me of posts on Cubaamor. Gracias
I'm not familiar with this forum (?) but i've seen it mentioned here before, and it appears to be a place for scorned lovers to share their tales of woe, I assure you that is neither my case nor intent, I did actually reply just trying to help, but like the line goes, some men you just can't reach.. Nevertheless, no hard feelings, suerte compañero/a..
