Hi Ladies!! Just got home from work... thanks Avana and Shuster and KJG, I don't know what I'd do without you.
I sometimes have to stay away from the discussions....it scares me too. But we need to remember that we all have a different story and sometimes when they 'sound' the same, they are not. There is alot more to a story than we know...
I agree with bad spouses and bad sponsors...
I met a Cuban living on the streets in Wolfville, NS, three years ago who's sponsor gave her 5 grand and kicked her out. Bc her sponsor gave her that money, she could not get welfare. I set her up with a job and a place to stay through a friend, and she's living in her own apartment now but desperatly wants to go home. She sold her house to come to Canada, and the government will not give her a place to live.
As for the bad spouse, I had one. Married a Cuban who clearly married me to get in the country. Finally one of his friends told me and took me to meet his girlfriend and children. I was married to him a year before I knew, had been there 6 times. Looking back I can see it clear as day now. But I was blinded by love then...lol I've since learned he's married to someone from Quebec and I worry when I hear someone say thier husand is from Holguin...but I guess his new wife would have to know he was married to a Canadian before because he would have to submit his divorce certificate, as did I.
I never intended on ever going back to Cuba and family forced me. Then viola, I did it again!! haha... must have a thing for Cuban men !!