Look, there is no need to compare your application with someone else's. Everyone is in limbo and everyone has a spouse or loved one that they want to come to Canada with them. I was in your shoes when I hadn't seen any updates for about 3 months, nothing since we did medical and then within the span of 3 weeks we had pre-arrival, background check complete, DM, PPR, Counterfoil info and COPR in hand so it's not a linear process nor is it going to be the same as everyone else...you may have a different immigration officer then someone even if it's the same VO.