I received a reply from ICAS telling me,
Unfortunately, if the study was completed at an institution which did not have Royal Charter to award degrees, we would not be able to provide a meaningful assessment. A certificate of equivalency issued by another institution would not be sufficient.
So that's me out.
How can I get a job offer if I'm in Canada with a R186(l)? Can I apply for a work permit? I don't have much time for another decent job, I'm already working full-time and leaving my current employment is not an option.
As for my wife... if she gets an ECA for her degree, can she apply for PNP as self-employed? How much does a self-employed person need to make, or does that matter? She has a work permit, but not a job offer, and she's probably not going to have a job offer because she stays at home with our children.