Honestly, my lawyer does not understand my husband's job and what Special Forces means. I didn't know either before being with him 5 years ago and I knew very few from him because they do not talk that much when they come home. So, I grabbed books and asked him questions that he would be able to answer to. I did the same thing with the sponsorship file, but at the end everyone around me pushed me to get a lawyer because our case is a special case and I did and now I regret it, because she actually triggered that request from the visa office because she stated he stayed there for one year and after debriefing he resigned. The wording and the dates messed things up. 