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Divorced and planning to sponsor please help

trikiliki

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Dec 1, 2016
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22/09/2016
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Add to it the fact you are asking whether or not you should tell the truth about the timeline of your new relationship...
 

alia9

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Oct 17, 2016
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Bcboundboy said:
"we got our pr and after one month of PR i got separated".

It's an amazing coincidence. Your genuine relationship lasted just long enough for you to get legal status in Canada. It didn't end earlier (which would have stopped you getting it), and it didn't end later (with you still together). Now that may be true. Fine.

It's worth noting, your timelines are wrong (somewhere) - at various points, you've said you got PR in April 2016, then a month later (May 2016) you separated, you were separate for a year as required then already got divorced. The earliest that can happen is May 2017 (2 months in the future) and you say it's already happened. So either you got your PR earlier, or you separated from your partner before you got your PR. You might want to get that straight.


Next, as soon (or possibly sooner) as you're allowed, you're trying to bring in another overseas partner. 15m men in Canada, and none of them are as good as someone from overseas. That's also fine, it happens to lots of people - most people in this forum! But you're now starting to stack things on top of each other.

It is entirely possible that your general story is true (all the specific dates can't be - see above) - you had one genuine relationship that failed, you have another genuine relationship now. But most people don't have that happen. Relationships fail, but not often around very important dates. New relationships happen, but not often right after another one finished. People fall in love overseas, but not often twice in a row, one of which gave you status, the other of which needs you for status. This means there will be doubt around your application. It won't be refused automatically, but you'll need to include clear proof about the genuineness of the relationship, and your last relationship's breakdown. And you really want to be clear on the dates things happened.
Yes i get this that it seems it was done for PR only but the truth is that we knew each other from 2007 and we came here together and were in love for so many years and got married here but then things started getting changed his attitude respect towards me my family and he started to show more interest in other goirls i was looking to get separate from him in 2014 only but then i thought of giving him a chance and ammend things but it was not possible i didnt have any importance in his life so i went in depression and by the time i realized i need to get out this place and live separately for some time we got our PR and then in paril 2016 i thought to live separately for few months and see if things get better but he never called me never approached me so ki kept on living alone that how i didnt matter to him at all after doing so much for him and i started talking to this guy in May 2016 as friends and within few months we fall in love he respects me and my family and cares for me i know my dates coincides thats why wanted to ask someone for help.
But actually now i am feeling better letting things out of my mind don't always think that everything is manipulated sometimes things happen at wrong timings
 

alia9

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Oct 17, 2016
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alia9 said:
Yes i get this that it seems it was done for PR only but the truth is that we knew each other from 2007 and we came here together and were in love for so many years and got married here but then things started getting changed his attitude respect towards me my family and he started to show more interest in other goirls i was looking to get separate from him in 2014 only but then i thought of giving him a chance and ammend things but it was not possible i didnt have any importance in his life so i went in depression and by the time i realized i need to get out this place and live separately for some time we got our PR and then in paril 2016 i thought to live separately for few months and see if things get better but he never called me never approached me so ki kept on living alone that how i didnt matter to him at all after doing so much for him and i started talking to this guy in May 2016 as friends and within few months we fall in love he respects me and my family and cares for me i know my dates coincides thats why wanted to ask someone for help.
But actually now i am feeling better letting things out of my mind don't always think that everything is manipulated sometimes things happen at wrong timings
And one of the fact is I got messed up with my dates taht i need to be clear i want to be honest but not stupid as I didn't do anything wrong we came here together and got married here only he got points because of me too and he got work visa based ob me too .
But then things changed people changed and now i wang to be with someone else but unfortunately he is from Pakistan and he has to come here to be with me. I have my career and everything here and do not want to live in Pakistan now as i studied here and has a good job
 

Gloria217

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Feb 24, 2017
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24-10-2016
alia9 said:
And one of the fact is I got messed up with my dates taht i need to be clear i want to be honest but not stupid as I didn't do anything wrong we came here together and got married here only he got points because of me too and he got work visa based ob me too .
But then things changed people changed and now i wang to be with someone else but unfortunately he is from Pakistan and he has to come here to be with me. I have my career and everything here and do not want to live in Pakistan now as i studied here and has a good job
You can see from the other posts that the application will be closely scrutinize. Just supply as much proof as possible and you can also write a letter about your entire situation and put it in the application; It can only help. Every love story is different and I don't think your case will be the first like this.
Best wishes
 

carolbb23

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Jun 24, 2016
3,564
406
toronto
Category........
FAM
Visa Office......
mississauga
App. Filed.......
15\12\2015
Doc's Request.
already did for applications
Nomination.....
n/a
AOR Received.
15/01/2016
IELTS Request
n/a
File Transfer...
10/03/2017
Med's Request
n/a
Med's Done....
02/11/2015
Interview........
thank god no interview
Passport Req..
n/a
VISA ISSUED...
28/04/2017
LANDED..........
28/04/2017
with cic and ircc that is major red flags and they consider your previous marriage as marriage of convence. and people are right they will go through your application like a fine tooth comb no wonder when people want to sponsor there spouse for right reason go through a hard time cause of people like it makes me sick.
 

carolbb23

VIP Member
Jun 24, 2016
3,564
406
toronto
Category........
FAM
Visa Office......
mississauga
App. Filed.......
15\12\2015
Doc's Request.
already did for applications
Nomination.....
n/a
AOR Received.
15/01/2016
IELTS Request
n/a
File Transfer...
10/03/2017
Med's Request
n/a
Med's Done....
02/11/2015
Interview........
thank god no interview
Passport Req..
n/a
VISA ISSUED...
28/04/2017
LANDED..........
28/04/2017
alia9 said:
Yes i get this that it seems it was done for PR only but the truth is that we knew each other from 2007 and we came here together and were in love for so many years and got married here but then things started getting changed his attitude respect towards me my family and he started to show more interest in other goirls i was looking to get separate from him in 2014 only but then i thought of giving him a chance and ammend things but it was not possible i didnt have any importance in his life so i went in depression and by the time i realized i need to get out this place and live separately for some time we got our PR and then in paril 2016 i thought to live separately for few months and see if things get better but he never called me never approached me so ki kept on living alone that how i didnt matter to him at all after doing so much for him and i started talking to this guy in May 2016 as friends and within few months we fall in love he respects me and my family and cares for me i know my dates coincides thats why wanted to ask someone for help.
But actually now i am feeling better letting things out of my mind don't always think that everything is manipulated sometimes things happen at wrong timings


it seems you two did not want to work on your marriage yeah but you with get your application check like a fine tooth comb and scrutinized it is like you used your ex husband to get here takes 3 years to sponsor someone