Thanks people, lots of good information here. I know the best thing for me would be to go to Canada first, then have him apply and come over, but he's different than most people and doesn't do stuff on his own too well. He'd just be overwhelmed with having to move everyhing. I just don't know what to do. the states wants to send me back, I may not even get an extension of removal, but he would be lost without me. I am the backbone of this family and it's all just so overwhelming for him. If I would have known any of this was going to happen, I would have stayed in Canada.
I'm not getting my back up, but you have no idea what I've been through and the thought of having to live wthout my husband is very sad and upsetting to me, then to come here and have someone snap at me about using caps....sorry, just kind of pissed me off. None of this is fair or right. I am Canadian and I love my country, but I question an immigration department that would cause this much pain for a family and split them up, make life difficult just because my husband wants to move to Canada with me. I can't come back and help him with the move or the sale of the house and he can't do it on his own. He is alone here, no family, just me. I'll call that number and see if I can get him in somehow. I just need a little support from someone that this will work. I won't have any place to live in Canada if he stays here...period. We move together, or we don't move at all and we go underground.