awesome thanks. so to recap (sorry for so many messages, this has had me really worried all day)
1. i will raise a webform to acknowledge the mistake in a previous trv where I should have stated common law, but stated single and explain that i was not aware of it (even our tax forms for that year were wrong, which we amended later, and i can show proof of ammendment).
2. get married and apply for sowp after marriage certificate is received (this is just in case our pr app is not approved by then, our eligiblity is already passed, cec december 25).
does that sound like a good course of action
@legalfalcon ? sorry ill try to not bother too much after this!