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Dear new citizens: when someone overseas ask you where you're from, do you say Canada or your old country?

zoojoo

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Feb 15, 2025
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I’ve been asked the good old “Where are you from?” question several times, because it’s obvious I was not born in Canada due to my accent. And this is something that will never change. I think the best answer is to say that you’re a dual citizen (if applicable) or that you’re Canadian but were born in xy country (or continent if you prefer not to disclose the specific country).
You can say you are from your X home country but settled in Canada. They are not VISA officer; When VISA officer or Government entity ask you " where are you from' than you answer officially as per your passport.

You should not give any F, to other people. You are not trying to proof them who you are, neither you should look for validation. I would also recommend a Therapy. Reason we people from traditional countries are grown with hooked up mindset and connection and feeling of group provides validation to our feelings.
Thank god I did some research work & learned how we human survive and seek validations. It helps to check my own feeling.

Why do not you think and enjoy this country and forget about what people are thinking unless they would pay you money for your answers
 

dpenabill

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Apr 2, 2010
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Last night cyberpunk author William Gibson posted he had never before been delighted by the outcome of a hockey game. His sentiments no secret.

Last night, after all the tit-for-tat and others-anthem-booing, gloves off sparring, and plenty of remarkable athletic skill displayed, tied two-two on the ice, the championship on the line, the game (hockey, which for many Canadians the only game there is, even though not so for many other Canadians) had gone into sudden death overtime when a perfect pass from Mitch Marner gave Connor McDavid the opportunity to make a perfect shot guiding the puck (what the puck) into the upper right corner of the net. Game over. Oh Canada!

So Team Canada prevailed in the 4 nations face off, that final shot the puck deflating the raucous chants of "U S A" which had been rattling the TD Garden arena rafters in Boston.

I mention this because William Gibson is most often referred to online, on the "internet," as an "American-Canadian author" (his novel Count Zero my favourite), and sometimes just "American author," even though British Columbia has been his home for more than half a century, having left, one might say having fled the U.S., when quite young. And even though, again, his sentiments are no secret.

I do not know, however, how Gibson answers questions about where he is from.

I do know and understand that not all naturalized Canadians harbour the same sentiments about the country they left to emigrate to Canada. Homeland pride is common. But, for others, so are feelings of disdain or even animosity toward the country they left, which for many is the country they escaped, the country from which they fled.

I get and respect both perspectives.

I am not sure, but I suspect that there are more naturalized Canadians or otherwise dual-citizen Canadians, who can carry a U.S. passport, than those who have come here from any other country. I know quite few of them. Those who are more or less Viet-War era expats (remember, I am old, so my acquaintances tend to be old as well) tend to be emphatically Canadian, many embarrassed they are also Americans (a sentiment I fully get and very much sympathize with). But I know at least a couple, younger than me by at least a generation or two, who rather emphatically think of themselves as Americans who have acquired an additional citizenship. Probably easy to guess who I embrace as friends, who as acquaintances. (Clue: a distaste, if not scorn, for our neighbours, who lately are becoming not-so-neighbourly neighbours, is probably no secret.)

Like so many questions presented in this forum, there is no one rule fits all.

But for now Canadian hockey rules and it feels good to waive the Canadian flag. And I am very happy to say I am a Canadian . . . no matter where I am from.
 
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