Grizzleygamer said:
I can go to stay with my g/f for 6 months and then apply for another extension to my visitor's visa to get the 12 months?
If the border agent does not give you a specified time, then the assumption is that you can stay for 6 months. Then apply to extend this at about the 5-month mark. You can apply to extend it again if you want.
Would it be better to put some extra time in there and apply for an extension at 12 months also, or does the application for PR count from when you apply?
As soon as you have lived together for 12 months, you can apply. Make sure you have proof of the 12 months, though.
Is it best to go visit the US and then come back and tell them I am visiting again or just apply for an extension from within Canada?
The border agents sometimes ask almost nothing, and sometimes are very suspicious and won't let people back in. I would just apply for an extension from within Canada.
The general consensus is that when I come into Canada I should say I am visiting my "friend." So when they ask how long I will be there I can say that I will be visiting her in her home for 6 months? Or will they even ask how long I will be there?
I would just say you are coming in to travel/visit, and not mention the friend at all. I also wouldn't say you'll be staying for 6 months. If you say 2 months, they will most likely give you 6 months anyway. However, if they start grilling you, don't lie - because then you might be banned. Americans don't usually have any trouble visiting Canada. Bring some proof of ties to the USA just in case you are asked.
Since I will be at a land crossing with a truck of stuff should I do something different like have her drive it over and me take another car?
I would not try to enter Canada with a truck-load of stuff, not when you are claiming to be visiting. Have her drive it over, and you come in a different car.
When I apply everyone says that I can tell them that I intend to apply for common law sponsorship? Is there any tricks to how we say that or should I just straight out say we have been living together for 6 months and intend to live together for 6 more months and apply for PR?
When you apply for your extension, this is fine.
Lastly, I have a question about the law (CIAF) that requires people applying for common law sponsorship to live together for 2 years. Does that law mean that to stay in Canada the person being sponsored (me) would have to stay with that person for 2 years after becoming a permanent resident, right? That means that I can work and everything after we live together for just one year, as a visitor, and then apply for PR sponsorship, and then we would have to live together for an additional 2 years? It isn't saying that I would have to live with her for 2 years before I can get PR status and get a work permit?
Once you have lived together for a year, you can apply for a PR visa. It could take a year or less to process. Once you have the PR visa, you can work, get free health care, etc. - just like a Canadian citizen, basically, but you can't vote or get a Canadian passport. After getting the PR visa, you are a 'conditional' PR for two years. During that time, you have to stay with your partner. If you break up during that time, your PR could be revoked. After the two-year conditional period, you are a PR, and if you break up then, it will have no impact on your status in Canada.