You have said it so right except for one thing "acting nice and polite now rather than before". I think everyone here is nice and polite to others regardless of their situation and they always pray for everyone rather than just for themselves because we all are in same boat. Anyhow, i totally understand how it feels. Infact, i myself not sure if they will make my file as Green light as of yet. God is everywhere and always looking at us. Sometimes HE gives us hard time to see whether we are true believers or not. So, have faith. As of now, i pray for you and everyone including myself that inshAllah we shall all reunite with our spouses as soon as possible. (Ameen)