CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[mahmed17]

then why they wanted to have an interview at the first place or was it after you provided additional proof

Because last year I wasn't able to provide them with enough proof that our relationship was real because at that time we didn't email/skype we only had phone bills. I am sure it might make the case more difficult being cousins but it definately is not a reason to reject it.

 

[ONE 2 KA 4]

Acha bhai ab main naraz ho gye hon ap se, ab mujay raazi karna bhi na aana

Le naraz ho gi behin tu mana lete hy, ye wali behin jaldi maan jaye gi ghosa nhi krti ziyada. "Tu Ruse tenu mein manwa, tere te soo soo wari sadke jawa, narazgi maar gi menu teri, ni maan ja meri ladli behna."

 

[Jaania]

Khan, I am a APRIL 2010 AOR and I am in my 12th month now

 

[Jaania]

Thanks MAHMED and BECOME A LONER for your kind comments.

CAIPS is my hope now ... Cousin se shaadi kerna gunnah ban gaya hai ISB CHC walon ke liye.

ONE 2 KA 4 - Meri churiyaan aur suit kahan hai??? Did you post it to me to my UNKNOWN address LOL

ALLAH se duwa tu har pal main kerti hoon magar mayoosi jaati hi nahi
I want my husband here

 

[became-a-loner]

Yes I agree with you it could be due to 1st cousin as I said I know there is another sister with the same situation due to marriage with cousin.
If you recall there was a ducomentry information conducted by a famous lawyer with CHC-I late last yr and that article was publish in news paper. Out of many reason for case delaying one was marriage with first cousin. I will check If I can find the link to that newspaper for your reference.

Bro I am not scared other than Allah. Jab oss MALIK ka hukim ho ga mout a jani hy not a minute less not a minute more. I am with you if you want to do anything I also have same feeling that most of us are scared here. Dont really reliaze that its our right as a citizen. There is no difference between the Visa officer and you being as a citizen. Only difference is he/she work for Govt and you & I workd for corporation.
Take an example of UK spousal sponsership my aunty told in UK told that the embassy in ISB were delaying and refusing every other case than peoples got to gather in UK and marched peacefully agaisnt Govt and their minister of immigration personally went to PK to find out the delay & refusal reasons in British High Commission, than after no more objections and visa started to get process in 4-5 months timeline.

No wonder nations/public have the power in their own hands to influnce the govt policies, but if nation/public dont reliaze this than I have not seen or heard about any leader who take care of peoples other than Nabi Kareem SAWS & Sahaba karaam & Ulma karaam and Illama Iqbal & Qaid e Azim.

Cousin marriage may or may not be a problem .............. it depends who picks up your file ............. plan a protest, you are a hero member and i assure you that i will walk with you ............ it has gotten to the point where all of us have to take the pain to get out and there is no better time than this because this is ELECTION TIME but we need a leader and being a HERO member you can take up the role

 

[mahmed17]

Le naraz ho gi behin tu mana lete hy, ye wali behin jaldi maan jaye gi ghosa nhi krti ziyada. "Tu Ruse tenu mein manwa, tere te soo soo wari sadke jawa, narazgi maar gi menu teri, ni maan ja meri ladli behna."

Bhai, naraz itani jaldi bhi nahin hoti, Allah aisa time na dikhai jab hum kabhi apne bhai se naraz ho jye. But ap k manane wale ideas bohat hi top class hain

 

[Jaania]

I have no proofs, I am at work and we talk once a day over the phone, we use calling cards.
I only have my MSN chat records from JAN 2010 to APR 2010 every day then my work office
took everyones MSN off from our computers due to company policy. SKYPE per history hi nahi save ki

AB KYA KEROON, apna dil nikaal ker bhaij doon?

 

[Jaania]

I will join the PROTEST for sure but will it be in OTTAWA ya MONTREAL ya TORONTO???

I say OTTAWA!!!

 

[mahmed17]

Thanks MAHMED and BECOME A LONER for your kind comments.

CAIPS is my hope now ... Cousin se shaadi kerna gunnah ban gaya hai ISB CHC walon ke liye.

ONE 2 KA 4 - Meri churiyaan aur suit kahan hai??? Did you post it to me to my UNKNOWN address LOL

ALLAH se duwa tu har pal main kerti hoon magar mayoosi jaati hi nahi
I want my husband here

Of course sister, I feel the same way. Especially when I think next month I will spend my second anniversary all alone again and we are now in 20th month of processing. Always remember there is someone out there who has it worse than you. There are some people waiting from 3 years. InshAllah ap ki bari bhi a jaye gi for PPR. Continue your duas, Allah ap k saath hain.

 

[mahmed17]

I have no proofs, I am at work and we talk once a day over the phone, we use calling cards.
I only have my MSN chat records from JAN 2010 to APR 2010 every day then my work office
took everyones MSN off from our computers due to company policy. SKYPE per history hi nahi save ki

AB KYA KEROON, apna dil nikaal ker bhaij doon?

This might be the issue. It was the case for me, I only had phone bills when I used to call him from my house phone. He used calling cards to call me daily but they don't accept these so we couldn't send that. All we could send was the 2 or 3 times a week I called from my house phone. After I found out my file was in interview I said screw this, I don't care about the money and started calling my husband daily or every other day from my long distance plan. Yes it cost more than using calling cards but now you can use something like simplecall which has history of calls.

Also, please keep all skype history starting from today. Take screenshots of you two talking and also copy and paste any convos or if you video chat copy and paste the time of call and duration. Email each other, even if they are short but consistent this will add up as proof.

I did all the above and then visited him in Pakistan and allhumdulillah our file was taken out of interview queue.

 

[became-a-loner]

I have no proofs, I am at work and we talk once a day over the phone, we use calling cards.
I only have my MSN chat records from JAN 2010 to APR 2010 every day then my work office
took everyones MSN off from our computers due to company policy. SKYPE per history hi nahi save ki

AB KYA KEROON, apna dil nikaal ker bhaij doon?

going forward you should send a dozen short emails from your official email to his email and have him respond to your mails, make phone calls during your breaks regularly and better not use Calling Cards because you dont have any call history with that, if your husband is calling you using pre-paid service, you can still get his outgoing call history to your number by paying $50 dollars upto last three months. try to send him some money time to time (you may not want it ......lol but just to keep the record straight) if any of your friends visits Pakistan ask them to meet up with your husband and have photographs with him and then get letters from friends with copies of their PR card or citizenship stating that they met your husband on their visit to Pakistan. facebook updates are another idea with both of you commenting on each other or other common friends wallpost regarding your pics together and if you taking medication as you indicated, try getting a letter of recommendation from your psychologist to process your husband's application sooner than later for your better mental health, at least by this they will feel some liability as you can potentially sue CiC one day for emotional injury. I will share if anything els comes to my mind but I am sure there will be light at the end of this dark tunnel, just keep walking you are a trooper

 

[ONE 2 KA 4]

I have no proofs, I am at work and we talk once a day over the phone, we use calling cards.
I only have my MSN chat records from JAN 2010 to APR 2010 every day then my work office
took everyones MSN off from our computers due to company policy. SKYPE per history hi nahi save ki

AB KYA KEROON, apna dil nikaal ker bhaij doon?

Why you are using calling cards. I mentioned many time use simplecall 3.6 cent/minute or Nuera Telecom 4.3 cent/minute much cheaper than calling card and you can have the call history also.

 

[Humaumair]

I will join the PROTEST for sure but will it be in OTTAWA ya MONTREAL ya TORONTO???

I say OTTAWA!!!

how will i come to ottawa ?? jaania montreallllll mai bhook hertal kertay hain...
and relax yar meri kahani bhi pta hai ap ko...yar mjhay to toronto k lawyer ne phone per kaha k MOHATARMA WO LOG ZEHEN BANA CHUKAY HAIN K REJECT KERNA HAI and u hav to change their minds by all the proofs....to socho mera kya haal ho ga..i miss my husband yar... i am sad....and u know i called one more lawyer maximus gave me the number...she said itni sakhti ker di hai that i am getting so many calls of ppl saying we got letter again asking proofs and visa nhe day rhay kisi ko.....
yar i ordered CAIPS on 22nd march..abhi tak nhe aye..oye u told me to call caips,,,shit bhool gaye...zehen nhe chalta yar...u know aj mai ne kya kiya....i sat in the car aur car ki key purse mai rakh ker bhait gaye lol...zehen nhe chal rha tha k car kaisay start kerun lol lol lol....its not even funny now....ALLAH madad keray plz ameen...jaania ill call u tom...dua kero bus tension na lo

 

[shaimaa]

Dear loner hang in there. Cousin say shadi karna nahi balka pakistan main kise se bhi shadi karna gunah hai i guess from now on i am advising all my canadian pakistani relatives not to get married to a paksistani girl/ boy

I just dont get it .................. you have an ideal case i am surprised that they still want an interview to check out the relationship .......... sounds like such a nonsense I am sure they would have thought of another reason to suspect it.............. I know a girl from here who married her first cousin in Pakistan and had a big bang marriage with every single ritual possible, they even provided their childhood pictures together, as per her CAIPS marriage is genuine but they keep sending him letter for the forms he has submitted multiple times to them stating ........ on this date you were asked to submit this form which is not complied .............. he keeps replying to them with confirmation number of TCS but they stubbornly send him the same letter and it has been two years for this drama ............. they are like Gods and we feel so helpless may be its time that we go out in streets and protest ....... unfortunately people here are too scared to be victimized ............. trust me I used to be such an advocate of Canada but now I have lost my feelings ..... it does not feel like my country any more ........... since I started dealing with chc-isb i feel I am only an immigrant with my rights only in Canada

 

[became-a-loner]

Dear loner hang in there. Cousin say shadi karna nahi balka pakistan main kise se bhi shadi karna gunah hai i guess from now on i am advising all my canadian pakistani relatives not to get married to a paksistani girl/ boy

and if we all understand .............. this is the purpose of delay, to discourage all potential spouses from Canada to marry in Canada and if possible those who have already made the mistake of marrying in Pakistan, send them back to Pakistan to their spouses........... that is the conservatives govt anti immigrant policy......... I am going to vote liberals tomorrow in advance polling