i guess i have to type it agin...i will make it short
got married in lahore in 2009 june spend 3 months with stupid ex-husband, file sent december or novermber 2009...in december 2010 almost a year later he secretly re-married to some one else...(but the way he talked to me on the phone he was really sweet, got that wrong) he said u r taking long for sponoring me...i warned him thats it will be at least 18 months...went to pak to get divorce took me 8 months in court to get divorce bc he wount divorce me, i was really hoping to gey justice from pak court but they considered women nothing..i got nothing in return no jaheez no haq mehar and my gold..so i did appeal even in appeal i got nothing, in fact they told me that i have to pay 1 millions rupees to my ex'hub for asking divorce.. (they said that when a girl ask for divorce then they dont get anything, what is this, where is my izzat?) but dont they see the prob here even in islam u have to ask your wife in order to remarry..he broke the rule...
So do u guys think i should go to high court and appeal again?? i know its worthless..i dont want jaheez but the prob is that i dont want him to have it either..
i tried involing cdn court but they refused bc i was married outside of the country...
chc ruined our life..i had suffer alot from depressio..feeling ok now..(its even worse when someone within your relatives do such a thing)
sorry if this is nor relevant to this thread...just need opinions