Shanzay said:
The very first sign of immaturity to make your personals to public.
Think hundred times and discuss with the trusted people before going to make any decision but once you are done keep it in your heart forever.
How can you expect two different people grown up in different families exacly think and behave in the same manner.
Couples who think in the begining of their relationship they are best but later they find they are worse and those who think in the begining they are worse later find they are best. Make your spouse your friend not lover.
Once more thing ISTAKHARA..Most of us having wrong perception about it.
Istakhara meaning Allah say mashwara mangna.. 2 rikat namaz parhain or Allah say dua karain k yay kam agar ap k haq may bahtar hay to hojai or nahi hay to na hoo. Koi khawab nahi ata asa hota to shayad koi kam bhi galat nahi hota.
lol ...............Yar which book did u read bhai ji ............ logic does not work in Islam in all things ................. u hav to believe .......... Allah has shown u hints and kept some hidden ............ coz He knows He is creator ............ He knows u can drive good on 401 with clear instructions ........... He wants to test ya .............. by keeping some of the things hidden ....................
from that ..... I tell u one thing about ISTAKHARA ..................u get answers in colors ............... u get a positive feeling wen u get up in the morning ............... but about ur comments "ke koi kam bhe halat nahi hota " ................ ISTAKHARA is only allowed on two things equal and in both ways ur not losing. That what I know ....... Correct me if i am wrong ...........
Otherwise 6/49 would hav always been won by muslimz ............. u canot do an ISTAKHARA for it .............