CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[Tor-wi]

Sorry to hear that, make sure she doesnt land here...

Cancelling immigration after visa has been issued but before spouse has landed in Canada.

I waited 2 years for my wife's visa to arrive and the day her visa came her father called my father to say the marriage is over. We have had fights on and off due to long distance but never to the point where I thought she would take this step. Anyways can someone please tell me how to cancel her visa before she lands here. Looks like she was just waiting for her visa to end things. Want to make sure she doesn't land here. I'm still crying my heart out and feel so betrayed. Please help

 

[became-a-loner]

Correction - women put effort in relationships and they believe that their spouse should do the same. However, men like it when someone is there to humbly say “I understand” but they don't like it when they are required to say the same to her...women do have mood swing problems but its biological thing, not caused by a defeat in hockey/cricket/basketball game.
Next, when men are trying to impress then sky is the limit...anything and everything will be done and you will feel like a true queen...then after a while, the obsession towards you will lose its colors and so will your life too and no I am NOT speaking from my experience...just general observation...

very observational ........perfect to the level of experienced ................

 

[Tor-wi]

I appreciate when a man accepts the facts….and I know there are many women out there that nag for no reason at all…but I have seen men putting up with it only in movies…reality mai aik kick door ko, aik kick side table ko and there he goes ZOOOOOOOOOOOOMing away in his car…might return late night or might not return tonight lol ;D

very observational ........perfect to the level of experienced ................

 

[shamsia]

Correction - women put effort in relationships and they believe that their spouse should do the same. However, men like it when someone is there to humbly say “I understand” but they don't like it when they are required to say the same to her...women do have mood swing problems but its biological thing, not caused by a defeat in hockey/cricket/basketball game.
Next, when men are trying to impress then sky is the limit...anything and everything will be done and you will feel like a true queen...then after a while, the obsession towards you will lose its colors and so will your life too and no I am NOT speaking from my experience...just general observation...

Agreed But generally men are more upfront and straightforward sans the guessing games. As far as impressing goes, lets be practical, you cannot keep it to that level ALL the time. Situations change, priorities change. Wives need to understand that you will be taken for granted once in a while. Heck, there are times when you take your guy for granted too Comparisons of before and after marriage behaviour are futile, methinks.

 

[wes786]

Sorry to break the men/women coversation, but AIR CANADA might be going on strike starting Wednesday, I have a flight booked to Toronto next Sunday to pick up my wife there I hope they don't! :'( :'( :'( :'( Why why why?? wasn't the wait enough torture already??

 

[shamsia]

Sorry to break the men/women coversation, but AIR CANADA might be going on strike starting Wednesday, I have a flight booked to Toronto next Sunday to pick up my wife there I hope they don't! :'( :'( :'( :'( Why why why?? wasn't the wait enough torture already??

Uh oh!! I hope they dont! Inshallah, you will be able to go and pick her up without hassles, Ameen! Have faith.

 

[became-a-loner]

Sorry to break the men/women coversation, but AIR CANADA might be going on strike starting Wednesday, I have a flight booked to Toronto next Sunday to pick up my wife there I hope they don't! :'( :'( :'( :'( Why why why?? wasn't the wait enough torture already??

Drive to Toronto, its long but its feasible

 

[shamsia]

Drive to Toronto, its long but its feasible

But dont you think getting the wife back to Alberta/Calgary/Edmonton (sorry, bad memory ) would be feasible? She would already be jet-lagged and driving back would be too much, dont you think?

 

[amirkijaan]

Awesome touching poetry on immigrants if you havn't seen it already! Its only 6 minutes you will like it, click below:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGhIVXfae8Y&feature=share

VERY NICE ..........

 

[amirkijaan]

Sorry to break the men/women coversation, but AIR CANADA might be going on strike starting Wednesday, I have a flight booked to Toronto next Sunday to pick up my wife there I hope they don't! :'( :'( :'( :'( Why why why?? wasn't the wait enough torture already??

I hope they dont bahi ... INSHALLAH everything will be fine just keep ur hopes high

 

[sahibzada_2010]

Correction - women put effort in relationships and they believe that their spouse should do the same. However, men like it when someone is there to humbly say “I understand” but they don't like it when they are required to say the same to her...women do have mood swing problems but its biological thing, not caused by a defeat in hockey/cricket/basketball game.
Next, when men are trying to impress then sky is the limit...anything and everything will be done and you will feel like a true queen...then after a while, the obsession towards you will lose its colors and so will your life too and no I am NOT speaking from my experience...just general observation...

Life is happy when people live it naturally. Since the change is not organic, life feels so artificial these days. I hate it!

 

[wes786]

Drive to Toronto, its long but its feasible

But dont you think getting the wife back to Alberta/Calgary/Edmonton (sorry, bad memory ) would be feasible? She would already be jet-lagged and driving back would be too much, dont you think?

Drive from Edmonton to Toronto will be long however I did think about it at first before booking and then I was like its faster and more convenient plus we are spending a week in GTA/Montreal/Ottawa so I thought I would be driving alot anyways so take the plane and get it over with, but now it comes down to this. Hopefully then won't go on strike but even if they do then my options are limited! Damn right I am still getting there on the Sunday

 

[shamsia]

Drive from Edmonton to Toronto will be long however I did think about it at first before booking and then I was like its faster and more convenient plus we are spending a week in GTA/Montreal/Ottawa so I thought I would be driving alot anyways so take the plane and get it over with, but now it comes down to this. Hopefully then won't go on strike but even if they do then my options are limited! Damn right I am still getting there on the Sunday

For sure!! Say hi to my husband for me when you are in Ottawa

No seriously, if you want a quick run-down on the best places to eat and visit in Ottawa, I can get that for you if you want

 

[lonly widout hubby]

Sorry but I cannot keep my nose out of this ;D

I will have to take the men's side. Women do lots of drama, and somehow WANT the guy to guess how they are feeling and magically respond. Sorry not possible all the time

hey ............
if they cnt respond d women in their name .......... y they tuk all d efforts to get married n leave her back home ........... n enjoyn their life........

u r kind of ppl , who gve men all d powers on earth.... to lead ...................

marrieage shld be somthng walkin togather ........ N IF A WIFE ASKIN U to make ur mood as her's i dnt thnk she is askng dat much , its her rite to get it ......................
men n theIR TANTRUMS ...........
DUMD MEN

 

[wes786]

For sure!! Say hi to my husband for me when you are in Ottawa

No seriously, if you want a quick run-down on the best places to eat and visit in Ottawa, I can get that for you if you want

My brother in law was in Ottawa for 6 years so I got that list from him Though I will say Hi to your husband