Doing it yourself is the best thing to do, so there is no third person involved unless the case is complicated. If its a simple straight forward case you don't need a lawyer. You will find better help here for free then any lawyer or consultant can provide for money. As for proofs you can send the following:
- photos of engagement, wedding , reception, honeymoon, places you visited, other photos with our family members
- wedding and reception invitation cards
- phone call logs and skype chat records showing call duration
- emails
- receipts of gifts sent to each other
- Money transfer receipts
- Proof of your visit i.e. air ticket, boarding passes, passport entry/exit stamp
ya my case is straight forward i give my lawyer eveything but he was not sending to them n he write them letter in 2009 that im not providid wht ever u ask for so coz of him my case got reject it so that y i want to do do lawyer
do i relly need to get money tranfer receipts
other n that i have phone bill,email, air ticket i dont no wht else they want more