Can Immigration revoke Permanent Residency?

[user828]

Her ex bf and she still work on same place.

Sorry If i sound rude saying this. But I said I am not trying to do anything crazy. I am only saying if they treat me like trash then what do shall I do. Im unemployed and she is with her parents and sister in other house since two weeks. They don't even talk to me and threaten me We will call police and kick you out of this country and keep you in jain for 10 years. I'm all alone inside house. They are doing it on purpose. I don't even have anyone to talk to me. I am only talking to wall. I had panic attack. I can't eat anything at all. My health is worsening. Trust me friend I am under such a bad depression. I had trauma. You don't know what kind of game she and her family playing with me. I'm not trying to hurt her. Will you let anyone keep hurting you because you're not saying anything? Trust me it's very tough here now. I think I should go to government for the help.

You are already a PR, why don;t you go back to home country for some time - will have support and clear your mind. Talk to her after 1 month after things have cooled down, maybe she realizes her mistake

 

[rhcohen2014]

Her ex bf and she still work on same place.

Sorry If i sound rude saying this. But I said I am not trying to do anything crazy. I am only saying if they treat me like trash then what do shall I do. Im unemployed and she is with her parents and sister in other house since two weeks. They don't even talk to me and threaten me We will call police and kick you out of this country and keep you in jain for 10 years. I'm all alone inside house. They are doing it on purpose. I don't even have anyone to talk to me. I am only talking to wall. I had panic attack. I can't eat anything at all. My health is worsening. Trust me friend I am under such a bad depression. I had trauma. You don't know what kind of game she and her family playing with me. I'm not trying to hurt her. Will you let anyone keep hurting you because you're not saying anything? Trust me it's very tough here now. I think I should go to government for the help.

no, i would stand up for myself, and if it's that bad of a situation, i would seek shelter somewhere else! are there organizations in your area that help new immigrants? do you practice a religion? what sort of shelters are in your area? i can understand it's scary being all alone and being treated badly. i also know that if someone treats me like trash, then i try to separate myself as far as possible from the situation. if you are unemployed, can you apply for social assistance? does your city have public housing you can apply for? there ARE options out there for you, it just takes some investigation, and may take some time to sort things out. obviously being where you are is not a healthy environment, so you need to remove yourself as quick as possible. if your only option right now is to stay where you are, then my suggestion is to not instigate any of them by making threats of your own. this will certainly not help your situation AT ALL!

 

[tugsthebugs]

As per OP - when he tried to reason with her ( keeping in touch wth ex ), she went on to say she doesn't want to live with him and is asking a divorce.
She is pregnant and this needs to be handled very gently

I never used her for anything but she bought me so many gifts and about being pregnant I promised her I will traet you like princess if you come back. I will not let her do anything at all. I told her I will take it as a real man. I hope she will not make up anything and try to put me under bad situation. It will kill me inside. I even left my family for her because we had age difference and my family wasn't happy with that. Now I am not on good talking tern with my family and she is trying to kick me out of this country.

 

[tugsthebugs]

You are already a PR, why don;t you go back to home country for some time - will have support and clear your mind. Talk to her after 1 month after things have cooled down, maybe she realizes her mistake

I think you are right both of us need sometime we will give space to each other for sometime and see if we miss each other. She was telling me we might live in separate room under same roof. She is not ready to accept me. She is only doing this for baby.

 

[rhcohen2014]

As per OP - when he tried to reason with her ( keeping in touch wth ex ), she went on to say she doesn't want to live with him and is asking a divorce.

per the original post " I'm here since almost three months and now my wife is acting so different and threatening me that she will do fraud marriage case on me and kick me out of this country because I read her emails and told her how come your ex boy friend is still your best friend and you still miss talking to him. I told him usually married people don't do that. "

Reading someone's email (even a wife's), and asking them why they are still friends with her ex boyfriend and questioning why she misses talking to him to me does not suggest he was trying to "reason" with her. Granted, neither one of us know the tone of the questioning or the background, but i can suspect being asked questions like that would put anyone on defense, and start an argument. If a relationship was solid, there was mutual trust, and both people were secure in the relationship, it shouldn't matter who anyone is sending emails and talking too. If she was hanging out with him by herself, and there was suspcion of something more, then yes, obviously there is reason to question such a relationship.

 

[tugsthebugs]

no, i would stand up for myself, and if it's that bad of a situation, i would seek shelter somewhere else! are there organizations in your area that help new immigrants? do you practice a religion? what sort of shelters are in your area? i can understand it's scary being all alone and being treated badly. i also know that if someone treats me like trash, then i try to separate myself as far as possible from the situation. if you are unemployed, can you apply for social assistance? does your city have public housing you can apply for? there ARE options out there for you, it just takes some investigation, and may take some time to sort things out. obviously being where you are is not a healthy environment, so you need to remove yourself as quick as possible. if your only option right now is to stay where you are, then my suggestion is to not instigate any of them by making threats of your own. this will certainly not help your situation AT ALL!

I live in Markham. I think Yes there are some organization i my area. When i told her father about going refuge house or government house. He was like no you don't need to go India. You can live in same home bout in different room. Im Hindu and Thankful to God he gave me strength and good people like you around. It is very scary and dangerous to live alone. i even told my wife I will commit suicide if you leave me. I was that depress. And I had my medicine ready for this. Yes I can apply for social assistance but she has very good income so government will ask her to pay. I'm going to talk her family again about living in separate room and keeping lock on room. I will instead tell them I will go to immigration and talk about it. let matter finished. You don't know I even get scare talking to anyone. I was panicking that much.

 

[user828]

Lot of different variables, but IMO - if one were to keep in touch with his/her ex - then the husband/wife should know about it - now I don't know what prompted him to check her emails but if he had known about it then the story would be different. But all said and one, if one finds out his wife is in touch with her ex secretly, don't you think there will be a small air of suspect, heartbreak, anxiety - surely can't expect business as usual ( also depends on how liberal the relation is + culture/background )
Husband has the right to ask his wife but what buggered her so much that's she wants to divorce him, and now living in a closed room

EDIT: Just read previous post - This is an Indian Couple - well, being from there and knowing the culture inside/out, it's very bad when it comes to either one keeping in touch with ex

 

[user828]

I live in Markham. I think Yes there are some organization i my area. When i told her father about going refuge house or government house. He was like no you don't need to go India. You can live in same home bout in different room. Im Hindu and Thankful to God he gave me strength and good people like you around. It is very scary and dangerous to live alone. i even told my wife I will commit suicide if you leave me. I was that depress. And I had my medicine ready for this. Yes I can apply for social assistance but she has very good income so government will ask her to pay. I'm going to talk her family again about living in separate room and keeping lock on room. I will instead tell them I will go to immigration and talk about it. let matter finished. You don't know I even get scare talking to anyone. I was panicking that much.

Don't worry too much, I suggest spend some time in India with your family and come back. Don't worry, no one will stop you at the airport - try to work it out, if it doesn't then let her try what she wants and you get on with your life

 

[tugsthebugs]

Don't worry too much, I suggest spend some time in India with your family and come back. Don't worry, no one will stop you at the airport - try to work it out, if it doesn't then let her try what she wants and you get on with your life

I'm really working so hard on it to make it work. I am giving my everything to make this marriage. We know marriage is made in heave. It happens once in life time. I will save my marriage anyhow with my wife. No matter what I still love her a lot.

 

[steerpike]

I'm really working so hard on it to make it work. I am giving my everything to make this marriage. We know marriage is made in heave. It happens once in life time. I will save my marriage anyhow with my wife. No matter what I still love her a lot.

Then why don't you just trust her when she says she's not having an affair and move forward? She still works with her ex, so obviously she is going to occasionally talk with him. Most men who are secure in themselves and in their relationship would not have a problem with that. I don't know much about your situation, but i know in general, jealously and insecurity is not atttractive. Love without trust is kind of pointless.

 

[Amalthea]

Do you trust your wife? Does she trust you?

What drove you to dig through HER emails, a lack of trust?

Your relationship is yours alone. Maybe you guys should seek marriage counseling, it can help a lot, especially considering you have a baby on the way, etc... Ask her if you guys could restore the intimacy and trust, the love that was there before, would she consider staying together? If so, then please seek marriage counseling !

For the record, I talk to all my "exes". I even live with one. We went to Vegas together for work, and even shared a hotel room. My husband doesn't care because he trusts me. I have never given him a reason not to, and vice versa. Trust is so important. I hope you guys can salvage your relationship, because it sounds like you're in the midst of a bad fight, and trying to hurt each other is never good. My sympathies.

 

[northernlights]

Thanks a lot for your answer. I didn't ever abused her or being physical. We had several arguments. And I never used her for getting PR. if she make fake story and fake evidence that I used her for PR then does she have right to revoke my Permanent Residency? I think she is talking to her lawyer nowadays. And she is living in separate room under one roof and keeping her room locked.

It depends,if you want to continue with your relationship.

Whenever she threat you again..call RCMP and stand outside your house and narrate whole story. Better you stay separate , if you file your Income Tax return with CRA, modify your status. try to get some proofs, solid proofs. Better you write a letter to Immigration authorities about what is going on, to keep them in loop.