wowsers said:
Your observations are unpleasant, and uncalled for. This is not a forum for rudeness but for persons who want to give help to those who seek it. No, I am not from the US and have not been there recently. What precisely has that to do with anything? The OP's husband was working in the US. What is there to suggest that he cannot get work there again? Nothing! Their lease (if it is a lease and not a periodic tenancy) expires in April and his right to work terminates soon afterwards. So there is no penalty in issue (your original advice, later amended) What evidence is there that her parents can finance the family for the time until the husband can get PR status? Nothing! Your advice is unrealistic. I suggest you keep quiet if you have nothing better to say.
Excuse me? My advice is NOT unrealistic AT ALL! How is it unrealistic to advise someone to not mess with what they currently have just to have a hope and a wish that they will find a job and affordable housing as soon as they land in the US? PLEASE! Don't post about things you don't know about. you obviously do not know about what it's like to be living in the us right now. And please please please tell me how saying "Your advice is unrealistic. I suggest you keep quiet if you have nothing better to say." is kind and sweet? talk about rude. get over yourself!!!!!!
i was not being rude, i was giving accurate information based on the facts of the op situation. just because the person "worked" in the us before DOES NOT mean they will be able to easily find a job in the us once they arrive. Seriously, i would LOVE to hear other US citizen's opinion on this, because i am quite sure you will be laughed at in stereo if you even TRIED to suggest that to a group of hard working americans. I mean, i can barely keep a straight face repeating it. that's just complete nonsense and it is absolutely ridiculous to suggest this when, there are many many many people in the us who are unemployed and UNABLE to find jobs for a good year or so. The market is absolutely SATURATED with people with bachelor and master degrees UNABLE TO FIND WORK!!!!!!!!!!
considering they need co-signers in canada, i would think they would probably find it quite difficult to find something at equal standard in the states that doesn't cost at least 50% of their pay. yes, did you know it's quite typical for people's rent to cost at or more than 50% of their salary in the us? probably not. PLUS... us citizens and residents MUST pay for their own health care by LAW, so if they don't find an employer who covers healthcare (Which a lot DON'T), that is ANOTHER out of pocket expense. if they don't pay for healthcare, they will have tax liabilities, and it probably won't be pleasant. I don't give advice to people living in other countries because i don't know the rules and way of life in those countries.
perhaps it's just me, but i don't think it is very good advice to tell someone to give up a CURRENT WORK VISA that doesn't expire until
2015 just to go try to find a job in the us that most likely will be low paying and take months to get. It is very unlikely they will be out on the street come april becaus a) they are figuring out what to do way in advance and b) NEWSFLASH... LEASES CAN BE EXTENDED!!! it is quite more realistic to stay where they are and get the app in soon, and deal with the expiration
IF it becomes an issue. Their work permit expires in 12 months. that is 12 months - ONE FULL YEAR - to get the app in and get approval. depending on where the original poster is from, this is VERY likely to happen. Most visa offices are processing approvals in LESS time than that!
Let the op decide what they want to decide. don't get all nasty and high and mighty because someone from the country that you are giving bad advice about sets you straight. what does NOT being from a country you are giving advice about have to do with it? lots! because you DO NOT KNOW ABOUT WHAT IT'S LIKE TO LIVE HERE, GET A JOB HERE AND PAY RENT HERE! i would expect the same from other posters if i told someone from the UK, Singapore, Vietnam, etc. something that just as ridiculous.
and yes, i did edit my comment, because i didn't want to be as rude as you apparently thought i was. i guess it doesn't matter. i guess i'm just a rude american who knows more about living in the US than you do. oh well!