Can´t take it anymore...

[PIPE0486]

missing my wife and daughter... its been over 8 months since my application was received, I know it takes time I just miss them so much loosing those great moments my baby is almost two years old, just don´t know what else to do...

 

[ashunandal]

missing my wife and daughter... its been over 8 months since my application was received, I know it takes time I just miss them so much loosing those great moments my baby is almost two years old, just don´t know what else to do...

very sorry to hear that
where are you applying from and what is processing time for your visa office?
i think you are almost finished with the process and you will get your visa soon, dont worry!
i can understand your situation - 8 months is way too long and unfair that you have to be separated from your family during processing time
best of luck! we will pray for your fast processing

 

[Sweetmine]

Immigration is a very lengthy process. You have done your part by gathering all the documents and submitting the application. Now, it is the VO turn to do it job. As much as it is frustrating, we have no choice but to wait. At the end it is going to work out. Did you at least order your CAIPS notes to see what is going on with your application? I wish you all the best and I hope that your family can join you soon.

 

[mobeyk]

Seperation is hard to overcome. When your life is reduced to computer chat. When you meet your wife online in less time than you commute to work, when you see families happy in Park, when you see couples hugging, when you see a child laughing, all reminds you of what you miss and it is cruel. Maybe it helps you to divert the thoughts. Every time you miss them visualize you all together doing what you love. I know, its like daydreaming but it is more positive than all other desperate thoughts. If we cannot be together in a real world, we can in visions. I talked to my employer and they understand and allow me to leave to visit my wife even in the middle of busiest times. I do not care of no income in those times as its for a much higher cause. I do not let more than 4 months go by to visit my wife again, but even with that its hard and no escaping into work will distract from the feeling of missing. Heads up, all things will be over and you will see, the wait was for a good cause and you will be rewarded with years of family life. I use the pain now to forever remember the hardship and to not start a argument if there are tensions, more tolerance and love.
Good luck to you and everybody who goes through this. Our country is build on immigrants pains. Let us never forget that.

 

[Marty11]

Very inspiring and lifting mobeyk, you are sooooo right.....

 

[Fencesitter]

I second that...you'll be together soon...then you'll be looking back on all this as if it were a distant memory...!

FS

 

[inlove14]

Seperation is hard to overcome. When your life is reduced to computer chat. When you meet your wife online in less time than you commute to work, when you see families happy in Park, when you see couples hugging, when you see a child laughing, all reminds you of what you miss and it is cruel. Maybe it helps you to divert the thoughts. Every time you miss them visualize you all together doing what you love. I know, its like daydreaming but it is more positive than all other desperate thoughts. If we cannot be together in a real world, we can in visions. I talked to my employer and they understand and allow me to leave to visit my wife even in the middle of busiest times. I do not care of no income in those times as its for a much higher cause. I do not let more than 4 months go by to visit my wife again, but even with that its hard and no escaping into work will distract from the feeling of missing. Heads up, all things will be over and you will see, the wait was for a good cause and you will be rewarded with years of family life. I use the pain now to forever remember the hardship and to not start a argument if there are tensions, more tolerance and love.
Good luck to you and everybody who goes through this. Our country is build on immigrants pains. Let us never forget that.

thank u mobeyk.. i can relate to what u wrote. its really hard to be away. what else can we do but to pray and wait for God's beautiful time that we can live with our partner and family soon. may God bless us all. take care

 

[Lemondrop78]

Oneday this waiting we did to move back to Canada or have our spouses move to Canada to join us will just be a distant memory. Eventhough you are missing out on some things now just keep thinking positive that you will be w/your family again permanently very soon. I hope your wife makes videos of your daughter for you and you get to video skype with them. I know it's not the same but oneday you will be together w/them forever.

 

[I.N]

There is moments when you really feel that you go crazy, but thouse momemts passing by in the end...I used to think a lot of these moments from our life, thinking that I am losing so much, beeing apart of my husbund then I started to think differently, becouse it really not woth it to think negative, I started to think of things that I really have, and then I realized that I have so much compare to what I don't have...

Let's try do that and we all will realize that in the end we have a lot of happiness in our lifes... .

Best of luck to everyone!

 

[mobeyk]

Let's try do that and we all will realize that in the end we have a lot of happiness in our lifes... .

Best of luck to everyone!

if everybody would think that it would be great. We all did our work and wait. Everything has a meaning in life. Use the energy that would be lost in negative thoughts to do something that would surprise your wife and child once they arrive. Put that energy to improve your life, grow yourself personally, whatever would change your situation at the moment to a better one. Its worth it and you see the wait as a opportunity.

 

[PIPE0486]

Hi there guys I just want to thank you all for your all for your positive comments, sometimes I just forget that someday this will all be done, I am working and have a second job as well to get as much income I can and have it all sent to my wife since she´s currently not working, I am also taking guitar lessons I want to surprise my wife with a love song when I get there and later on teach my baby girl a little be of music, I have so much plans and try to keep myself busy as much as I can.

Once again my friends thank you so much and God bless us all!

 

[I.N]

Here is something that it may chear you up a bit

http://www.lshs64.com/enjoytheride.html

Enjoy the ride!

 

[PIPE0486]

Here is something that it may chear you up a bit


Enjoy the ride!


What a great video my friend thank you so very much u make my day!!!! ;D

 

[I.N]

You are very welcome! ;D

 

[dair2dv8103100]

I am so in this place at the moment.

It has been 15 months since I have seen my husband face to face. I am mourning the loss of a good friendship as well as the death of another friend. Everything in my body hurts right now. I am at work struggling to hold back tears and I can't even allow alot of those emotions and feelings out when I get home at the end of the day because my daughter is there.

I feel so completely alone right now.

As sad as it sounds... I am happy to know there are others out there that feel this way. It kinda makes the world a little smaller in a sense.