Can´t take it anymore...

[PIPE0486]

We are in this together I´m way too far away in Costarica but we both know what it feels like, just try to keep in mind that you are not alone and somehow together we stand we´lll get thought this rough time that I can promise ...}

God bless you!

 

[I.N]

Hold you tight the Dairy2, nothing takes forever...your battle it's almost at the end.

We are here with you, you are not alone

Take care!

 

[dair2dv8103100]

Thanks this site and the people here have been so helpful and encouraging when I have been so frustrated with this process.

I know there has to be an end somewhere. It's just magnified by the sudden death of my friend and another situation going on right now. It's these times that we need our spouses the most and my poor husband is beside himself that he can't be with me right now too.

Oh for the grace of God to pour out His mercies on us all and bring us together with our loved ones.

 

[Basilzaman]

I am so in this place at the moment.

It has been 15 months since I have seen my husband face to face. I am mourning the loss of a good friendship as well as the death of another friend. Everything in my body hurts right now. I am at work struggling to hold back tears and I can't even allow alot of those emotions and feelings out when I get home at the end of the day because my daughter is there.

I feel so completely alone right now.

As sad as it sounds... I am happy to know there are others out there that feel this way. It kinda makes the world a little smaller in a sense.

Don't worry friends soon we all will received Pr just pray to God ...

 

[dair2dv8103100]

Don't worry friends soon we all will received Pr just pray to God ...

Pray without ceasing is my motto these days. My conversations with God are really the only thing holding me together at this moment.

I am praying for a speedy resolution for us all.

 

[emrn]

Seperation is hard to overcome. When your life is reduced to computer chat. When you meet your wife online in less time than you commute to work, when you see families happy in Park, when you see couples hugging, when you see a child laughing, all reminds you of what you miss and it is cruel. Maybe it helps you to divert the thoughts. Every time you miss them visualize you all together doing what you love. I know, its like daydreaming but it is more positive than all other desperate thoughts. If we cannot be together in a real world, we can in visions. I talked to my employer and they understand and allow me to leave to visit my wife even in the middle of busiest times. I do not care of no income in those times as its for a much higher cause. I do not let more than 4 months go by to visit my wife again, but even with that its hard and no escaping into work will distract from the feeling of missing. Heads up, all things will be over and you will see, the wait was for a good cause and you will be rewarded with years of family life. I use the pain now to forever remember the hardship and to not start a argument if there are tensions, more tolerance and love.
Good luck to you and everybody who goes through this. Our country is build on immigrants pains. Let us never forget that.

I can relate to u, it's been almost 8 months since we submitted our app, 4 months since we submitted my passport I been away from my husband for 1 year and a month now. I really miss him terribly. I don't remember a day I haven't cried. I'm starting to become a miserable person and resent couples who are being lovey dovey in front of me lol I miss my husband so much

 

[Sammi]

Here is something that it may chear you up a bit


Enjoy the ride!

LOVE this!
Thanks for sharing

 

[I.N]

I know it's hard to stay away from your belove ones, but sometimes we really don't have a choice.

Fortunately, I am living in Europe and I meet my husbund once at four months, (my husbund has a very understandable boss, as well) but either way it's always difficult.

So hang on there guys, and never give up, thouse difficult days when you cried, when you went angry, thouse days when you felt that all this world is on your shoulders, the anxity....will be just a bad memorie, and when you will be with your beloved one you will simply forget about "thouse hard days"...you will barely remember it.

Well, this I could say from my experience, I didn't have great moments at some pont in my life, as everybody had I suppose, but I can say that when I am thinking of that bad moments I feel like it happened 100 years ago.... .

Just have a little bit of Faith!