sonia5555 said:
lol..oh my dear mr eng x ;D, u understand my fears ;D but i still don't know ;D anything...is it enogh reason (the withdrawing) to refuse me and in this case their reason due to it's not healthy relationship??
You have so much worries, you do not need to worry that much. Do not think much about tomorrow when you do not know if it is going to come. Just do what it takes, and rely on Allah. Whatever Allah wills is going to take place. Even if people want something else.
So just have peace and think about your relation with your husband.
If I am an immigration officer, I will look at your husband's email as something positive. The reason is that he is honest and was going to inform that his relation is ending when it was going to end. This means, it is a genuine marriage and is a real relationship. Everyone has problems, and every to couples fight at some point, however it is not the end of the world.
the officers who are processing your application are human beings. some of them may have fights with their partners everyday. yet they still live together and love each other. they understand what you and your husband are going through and that you living away from each other is enough reason for frustration and stress.
To sum it up, do not worry much, have peace in your hart, pray that Allah brings you and your husband together and rely on him.
Wish you the best.