foodie69 said:
Five hundred years ago, Michel de Montaigne said: “My life has been filled with terrible misfortune; most of which never happened.”
Now there’s a study that proves it. This study looked into how many of our imagined calamities never materialize. In this study, subjects were asked to write down their worries over an extended period of time and then identify which of their imagined misfortunes did not actually happen.
Lo and behold, it turns out that 85 percent of what subjects worried about never happened, and with the 15 percent that did happen, 79 percent of subjects discovered either they could handle the difficulty better than expected, or the difficulty taught them a lesson worth learning. This means that 97 percent of what you worry over is not much more than a fearful mind punishing you with exaggerations and misperceptions.
Huffington Post
Don't sweat the small things, live life now. ;D
I would not consider loss of citizenship and deportation a "small thing".
Fear: country of birth will revoke my citizenship and/or deport me.
Outcome: my country of birth has threatened to revoke my citizenship and deport me four times.
Lesson learnt: fear the power of governments to wreak havoc on my life.
Fear: my spouse's country of birth will revoke citizenship.
Outcome: my spouse's citizenship was revoked resulting in statelessness.
Lesson learnt: fear the power of governments to strip one of their civil rights.
Fear: the country of my birth will deport my law abiding spouse who has been resident for decades.
Outcome: my spouse was deported.
Lesson learnt: fear the power of governments to act heartlessly.
Fear: I would be unable to sponsor my spouse to live with me in my country of citizenship.
Outcome: my country of citizenship refused to provide residence status to my spouse or a travel document for my stateless spouse to board a plane to that country.
Lesson learnt: fear the power of governments to capriciously ignore their own laws.
Fear: Canada would refuse permanent residence status to my spouse when we arrived in Canada.
Outcome: Canada granted temporary residence status to my spouse that lasted for five years.
Lesson learnt: fear the power of governments to break the promises they have made with impunity.
I have been forced to move hither and yon, like a vagabond, from country to country. Lost are all the legal expenses, the costs of all that moving, and all the potential earnings I would certainly had been able to retain had none of this befallen us.
For some of us, the immigration road has been one of much travail. Instead of ridiculing the reasonable fears immigrants have regarding real, actual government legislation and trying to minimize their anxieties with empty political platitudes and feel-good faux news articles; those anxieties should be respected and responded to with compassion and understanding.
Considering my personal history, it is completely reasonable, if not completely expected, that I should have legitimate concerns about recent legislation that further empowers a government to take away my citizenship. I am certain that there are many other immigrants to Canada who have survived far, far, far worse than what I have endured. Do not belittle their concerns.