Isildur said:
Hi Workluck,
Did you go through Paris Office? Does that mean it has taken for you 5 months for the whole process?
cheers
Isildur
Hi Isildur
Yes, through Paris. Right now it's 4 months (sent in application beginning of August). We sent in everything, medicals, payed the fees upfront, etc, so there would not be any delays. Maybe we didn't send in a ton of evidence for our relationship, because we didn't even think that anybody could question it being genuine! After reading the entries on this forum I would have sent in way more than just photos and some phone bills and timelines. I guess it's going to take a week or three to receive the COPR letter (I'm from a visa exempt country), and then go to a CIC office or the border, whichever is fastest.
Thanks everybody for the good wishes! Can't believe that the visa struggle may be over soon and our relationship may not have a sword dangling above us anymore! I've gone through a lot of visas in the last 5 years since meeting my partner, and there was always a catch despite being eligible. Maybe, in retrospect, it would have been easier to get married earlier, but then again marrying too early before one is sure it's meant to last, is probably never a good idea. We got married last spring, because we love each other and otherwise I would have had to leave Canada in spring 2014 short of trying for another LMO (=nightmare), and he could not have come with me to my country either without being married, haha! Quite the shotgun wedding when one thinks of it that way. We're very happy, however, that we finally got "serious" because it will allow us to not have to fear that our relationship has to end or become very difficult because of visa issues, and we are as happy as ever together!
Can't wait for that letter! I'll let you know when it comes, and in the meantime: Good luck to everybody! Hope the VOs hand out lots of really sweet Christmas presents. I can't believe how many of us there are (even just on this forum), with the "bad" fortune of being in love with somebody from a different country. It's so much easier doing these things with support, not feeling alone. Puts the struggles in perspective, and answers so many questions the CIC helpline doesn't answer!