Thank youKJG said:you should hear something this week.......stay strong and positive....good news is on its way!!!
Thank youKJG said:you should hear something this week.......stay strong and positive....good news is on its way!!!
Yes it may be a little tragic but we have all kept as positive as possible with each other’s support. I am not sure if others feel this way, but I find it irritating that you keep posting groaning comments about the time line and your approval in the April thread. Most of have waited a long time and kept our heads up and its terribly annoying to see your comments when you have submitted a month after all of us. Just my two centsdkera said:actually i could call it tragic that it takes them 3 months to open the file and a couple of hours to approve. i mean, come on !!!
the comment was not for me but for everyone, including you.missmymexi said:Yes it may be a little tragic but we have all kept as positive as possible with each other's support. I am not sure if others feel this way, but I find it irritating that you keep posting groaning comments about the time line and your approval in the April thread. Most of have waited a long time and kept our heads up and its terribly annoying to see your comments when you have submitted a month after all of us. Just my two cents
I agree. May and June need to chill out and maybe stay out of the April thread. April is stressed out enough!missmymexi said:Yes it may be a little tragic but we have all kept as positive as possible with each other's support. I am not sure if others feel this way, but I find it irritating that you keep posting groaning comments about the time line and your approval in the April thread. Most of have waited a long time and kept our heads up and its terribly annoying to see your comments when you have submitted a month after all of us. Just my two cents
No need to be rude, I suggest you follow the May thread as people will be understanding of your situation as they are in the same position as you. And its not just this comment, you make one almost everyday annoyed that you havent been approved. I am chill, dont worry about that, just post where its warranted, such as the May thread.dkera said:the comment was not for me but for everyone, including you.
if you cannot understand that, try a beer to cool off.
missmymexi, I'm with you. I actually stopped following the thread since a few weeks ago. I still check it occasionally, but I felt comfortable with what you're mentioning.missmymexi said:No need to be rude, I suggest you follow the May thread as people will be understanding of your situation as they are in the same position as you. And its not just this comment, you make one almost everyday annoyed that you havent been approved. I am chill, dont worry about that, just post where its warranted, such as the May thread.
BCgirl2012 said:missmymexi, I'm with you. I actually stopped following the thread since a few weeks ago. I still check it occasionally, but I felt comfortable with what you're mentioning.
I'm from May, and actually the first May applicant that got approved in that thread. Honestly, we didn't expect it till the end of August, and even though my husband and I are living in opposite sides of the globe, we are trying to keep positive and focus on maintaining our long distance stuff, which believe me with 11 hours time difference it's quite challenging. So, we still have the bulk of the visa process in front of us, and my husband and I try not to focus on the visa related stuff and get on with our lives till the processing is finished and he gets his visa. We don't want the time waiting for the visa to be a time wasted. We really want to use the time to contribute positively to our life plans.
As a May applicant, I didn't feel comfortable to post in May thread after we got approved, since it was all about how horrible it is etc etc. I have to mention that I ended up with a couple of negatives on my profile for some reason on that week. Honestly, I didn't understand the reason!
I feel for everyone who has been waiting without even one single piece acknowledgement that CIC has their file, and I do hope that the speed up will lead to less waiting time for everybody.
Thank you again missmymexi, for bringing up the subject. It feels as if something was lifted off my shoulders.
Best of luck to you, and to all of us. I wish all of us a smooth and speedy process!
It's not about being negative, I don't consider myself a negative person and I think it's only fair that members that have been waiting 90+ days come on here to vent. I'm very much for the positive vibe and I've even posted a couple of times about that, speaking in my case it's really really frustrating to be waiting while other people that applied after me are getting approval and then coming on here to complain about waiting what 40 days? Come on give me a break, there are cases on here that waited over 110 days!!!alish said:i feel like the more u think and the more u become negative... so we should all be POSITIVE
now you speak for everybody..missmymexi said:No need to be rude, I suggest you follow the May thread as people will be understanding of your situation as they are in the same position as you. And its not just this comment, you make one almost everyday annoyed that you havent been approved. I am chill, dont worry about that, just post where its warranted, such as the May thread.
Absolutely, we are all in a up hill battle, I also followed the January, february and march threads ! I see nothing wrong with that, it certainly gives you a clearer picture of what is going on as a whole and no one should feel bad for doing it but you should definately respect the posters in that thread that are teetering on the edge waiting for approvals, there is a lot of emotion at play for all of us. I dont want to discourage dkera from posting, we all need the support, I merely would like him/her to put the comments on the appropriate thread or make comments that are applicable to the april applicants. I was a little leary about speaking my mind on this, but after several days of woes of not getting approval and applying in May on the April thread, the vein in my head started to pop a little.BCgirl2012 said:missmymexi, I'm with you. I actually stopped following the thread since a few weeks ago. I still check it occasionally, but I felt comfortable with what you're mentioning.
I'm from May, and actually the first May applicant that got approved in that thread. Honestly, we didn't expect it till the end of August, and even though my husband and I are living in opposite sides of the globe, we are trying to keep positive and focus on maintaining our long distance stuff, which believe me with 11 hours time difference it's quite challenging. So, we still have the bulk of the visa process in front of us, and my husband and I try not to focus on the visa related stuff and get on with our lives till the processing is finished and he gets his visa. We don't want the time waiting for the visa to be a time wasted. We really want to use the time to contribute positively to our life plans.
As a May applicant, I didn't feel comfortable to post in May thread after we got approved, since it was all about how horrible it is etc etc. I have to mention that I ended up with a couple of negatives on my profile for some reason on that week. Honestly, I didn't understand the reason!
I feel for everyone who has been waiting without even one single piece acknowledgement that CIC has their file, and I do hope that the speed up will lead to less waiting time for everybody.
Thank you again missmymexi, for bringing up the subject. It feels as if something was lifted off my shoulders.
Best of luck to you, and to all of us. I wish all of us a smooth and speedy process!
tsjunx said:It's not about being negative, I don't consider myself a negative person and I think it's only fair that members that have been waiting 90+ days come on here to vent. I'm very much for the positive vibe and I've even posted a couple of times about that, speaking in my case it's really really frustrating to be waiting while other people that applied after me are getting approval and then coming on here to complain about waiting what 40 days? Come on give me a break, there are cases on here that waited over 110 days!!!
And yes thanks missmymexi for expressing what I was thinking.
bagelbagel81 said:Just wanted to say I +-ed your rating BCGirl and alish
It's good to have positive people on the forum! It makes it easier for all of us
I am likening the whole process to different school levels- we are all at different stages heading towards the finishing line, but doesn't mean we aren't in it together supporting eachother to the end goal!
I do agree though that if you want to vent - maybe do it in your own group - so other people in the same stage can empathise!
Good-luck everyone... I am sure the end of the week will build up momentum