Hello everyone – I’m so happy there’s a thread with applicants who submitted to Pretoria. And the success stories inspire more hope!
My husband is South African and I am Canadian. We met in August 2012 during my volunteer expedition and we’ve had such a wonderful whirlwind of a romance. He visited me once when we were “friends” … the TRV was accepted immediately. We married July 1, 2013 and have now been denied 4 times for a TRV , even under dual intent. Does anyone know if this has negative implications for our sponsorship?
Here’s our timeline:
Sent Application: December 5, 2013
Approved as a Sponsor: January 9, 2014
We have received no other notice since. The 21-month wait period is scary. As they say in SA, we’re "holding thumbs" this doesn’t take that long.
For our 5th TRV, we’re taking the advice of another member in this forum and including extra documents. We also spoke to my MP’s office, who will also write us a letter and gave us pointers. Hope it works this time... I'd love nothing more than to have my hubby visit here for 9-days.
However... (dun dun dun)...
A new concern that has presented itself, especially after reading various topics throughout this forum… my husband has a 6-year old son who will NOT be accompanying him to Canada. We would love to have him live with us but understandably his mother has said no. I wouldn’t be able to let my son permanently move that young.
Anyhow, the medicals were not completed for his son despite attempts. His ex has been making it difficult to get a passport for their boy. Although all communication has been in writing (for reasons just like this) she does not outwardly indicate she won’t complete the passport application (does not reply to emails, raises other matters in response, has even signed the application but in the wrong spot, etc).
My husband does have his son’s unabridged birth certificate – will this work for the medical examination? Or must it be a passport? When my hubby asked the physician on the panel (where he completed his medicals) the doctor said “I don’t know”.
We would like to have the opportunity to sponsor his son in the future, well before he turns 18, to just provide him with that opportunity if he so wishes to come. If we do not provide medicals now, do we forfeit this chance? Even though it is not our doing? This will devastate my husband. But we must know so we can figure out a solution if this is the case.
All responses are welcomed!
ALSO – is there a spreadsheet on applications to Pretoria as of recent? I’d love to get on and see too!
Thank you in advance!