bro according to me this attitude is right in many ways.mayank_6 said:Y u Bengalis are alwayz sticked to ur community only.... i have seen the same attitude here in India as well and you are landing up in any foreign country n there also u want to have room mate who should be bengali....gr8
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sandhuboy said:bro according to me this attitude is right in many ways.
Because it reduces our level of adjesment like i m sikh and for me living with non-veg and smoking room mate will be tought . And other by living with our community make our like bit easy. And according to me thats the right way. And this will also help to make over native language alive . Living with other community will surely make us like v r living in jail.
+1rehabc said:Bangladeshi, Indian with Canadian passport feels their are superior in human race...
tiger007 said:+1
(I'm sure... this attitude, in general can be seen within All South Asian communities... not just Bangladeshis and Indians)
**All opinions expressed are purely personal, and pieces of information mentioned are to the best of my knowledge... You should consult other sources too.
may be i m different ........... it is my point of view ..................rehabc said:My friend she is Sikh just went recently, She lives with a Polish family, rented their basement. They are as normal as any Indian. Ironically, she faced more problem with an Indian landlord...
Same goes for my brother, We are from Bangladesh, but he prefers to live there with mixed communities and get cultural experience.
Bangladeshi, Indian with Canadian passport feels their are superior in human race...
[/quote]mayank_6 said:@ Sumonaney
Believe me buddy...you are good at English and you have to keep faith in urself as you have already boarded ur journey for Higher studies and that too in Canada so you will go thru it and you have to ....
Rather than pondering over these trivial issues , get urself acquainted with the skills you need to inject inside you....
Let me knw if I could be any help to you ....
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LoLrehabc said:Bangladeshi, Indian with Canadian passport feels their are superior in human race...
A friend of mine is from there. He is more into extra-curricular activities, president of some student society and a good cook. I will PM you when I find his contact details.Sumonaney said:Ok I make it clear i not very good in english that's why I said if I found some one who speaks my language then it would be easy for me to talk with them
Thanks
+1just_do_it said:Here's my 2 cents...
For someone new to the country and who does not know anyone there, its human nature to stick to your kind, those who speak the same language and all... the reason for the ethnic communities in BC and Ontario (punjabi's in Surrey, Chinese in Richmond etc).
However, i also feel that staying long term in such arrangements may do more harm than good in the long run. Here's how:
1. You will not assimilate into the canadian "culture" that easy
2. You may catch on to the beliefs of those in the same community (however dumb the beliefs may be)
3. You will speak english with an Indian "Accent"... trust me
4. Your networking will be limited to those in the same community
5. you will tend to segregate yourself from others and prefer to live, work, socialize with your own
6. You may end up making nonsense decisions because it makes sense to those in your community
For e.g. i know a punjabi guy who lived in surrey, went to school to get a degree, got PGWP, and then PR and instead of utilizing his canadian education, he drives a truck because punjabi way of thinking in canada is to make as much money as possible right from the get go so why waste time investing into a career.
Also, you never lose your culture or your native language, regardless of how many years you spend here. But what socializing with other cultures does is makes you aware of your own beliefs and principles and gives you the opportunity to take the best from everything and discard the junk. Besides, the survival of your native language and culture will depend on what you teach your kids since its on them to keep it or lose it.
My opinion.... while its good in its own way to stay with your own kind (home away from home kind of feeling), it will do you wonders hanging out with canadian folks. Your english improves, more networking, meaningful job opportunities etc.
It's funny how we cant wait to get out of India and blast everything indian and once we get here, we go look for everything Indian. I personally know people who have lived here for 15+ years and are so old school, they resent everything white. They dont socialize with white canadians, dont eat their food, consider everything indian superior to everything canadian... all this while living in "their" country that gave them an opportunity to have a decent life.