Documents that prove we joined our lives? That's what we're frikking trying to do right now lol! I'm wouldn't buy a house if I can't be sure she can even live in it! Plus I pay ALL bills, so her name is not on any of that... Anyway we have plenty of photo and chat logs and emails, and well, I send her lot of money through paypal, would that help as proof? Not sure how I would print that kind of stuff, though. I'm not sure we kept flight tickets or any receipt, but her passport have stamps that prove she came to canada several time, several months at a time...I guess the proof that I bought her a car this summer could help too, right? Evidence for the wedding should be easy. Would any person's testimony that our relationship is real help? Also, what do you mean by write up? Like our life's story? How we met, when she visited me for the first time, etc?