mikeymyke said:
I seriously dont get it, I feel like Im trying to reassure u a little bit and you blast me for it, yet steerpike says to you "Are you going to whine to the govt when he dumps u", you dont even lift a finger, what he said was pretty offensive but u just let it go
Your reply to his post, seems rather timid reply against someone who says something like that:
You take things way too seriously and stressing out over nothing. I even said Im confident you will pass because you were so sure abt ur relationship, well if steerpike can make that kind of remark and u dont defend urself with full force but get agitated when someone is trying to help u a little (maybe not in the way u prefer), then honestly I just leave whatever happens to ur hubby at the interview in God's hands now. good luck
now here is couple of quotes from your posts addressed to me
Usually the younger, non-Canadian spouse has a greater incentive to enter Canada, and c an more easily manipulate an older Canadian spouse, than could a younger Canadian spouse, because an older Canadian spouse feels his/her life is shortening and wants to quickly find a life partner
A much older Canadian spouse who marries abroad, is very likely not to marry someone his own age, rather someone much younger, because in Canada, he does not want to marry an old woman, but he knows he cannot get a younger woman either due to his age. But a younger woman abroad who desires to come live abroad, will take up that opportunity.
As for a younger Canadian spouse, he/she wouldn't choose to marry a much older spouse abroad when he/she can just simply find a younger companion in Canada. But that's usually not the case for an older Canadian spouse because they either don't want to find someone "old" like themselves, or they know they have no chance getting a 20 year old girlfriend in Canada.
i am very curious how do you imagine you are helping anybody here? what you implying to me since you are addressing me...is what exactly? that i am old and my husband is using me for opportunity to come to canada? or that i am not able to find somebody in my country? you also marrying out of the country ..do you see any constructive advice in the above quotes? i already know what cic is looking for and what they are considering red flags...and also i am sure you are aware that nobody considers your theories on why older people marry younger people as help with the immigration process...lol. i am almost sure you know exactly what you doing..and if you are not then you need more good luck than me.