It took about a month , Added in October and by end of November it reflected in the account.Oh ok. Atleast you see your wife added in the cic online account. I don't even see her name in my online account.
So it took 2 months for you to see her as dependent in the application. Am I right?
Try to contact UK office and also did you update your new address in USA?
Yes updated the address via CSE.