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Thank you everyone for their opinions, advice and help! I read each and every one, Im sorry if Im unable to reply to some. I appreciate each and every one though and hope the best for all you guys!

Thats very true! You made a good point, and yes i think they care more about their honour than the marriage working out or the happiness of the couple. Its not right at all but sadly thats the way it is.

Hey im here! sorry I just had a hectic week thats why I was quiet for a while, thanks for checking up on me! :)

Thankyou for your wise words and advice!

Well I havent filed the application yet, but yes im supposed to be sending the pictures of the ruksati. But i left a day after the "ruksati" so i dont know how they will take that.

yeah im completely trapped. Thats exactly how i feel, like theres no way out and i have pressure from all sides. It is making me stronger in a way but at the same time its very mentally/psychology draining in every way. Thanks for understanding and giving your advice.

I know, your completely right. My parents do care about my happiness but in our society "family honor" comes before happiness and that cant be jeopardized no matter what otherwise it would lead to parents disowning thier kids even or honor killings that happen in some parts of the world. I am...

Ive been born and raised in toronto and I wouldnt be able to go back and live there at all and i dont think my parents will make me do that in that case. If it was that easy id do that. Its not though. He already gets the hint, but we both cant do anything about it, even he probably cant cause...

If I do that, wont my parents or whoever was involved in arranging the marraige get in trouble by the law?

I really don't care about money at this point, but yes I would feel sorry for wasting cic's time. If it was so easy, I would have done it like I said. And I did try to do it. But I have NO right apparently to end this, I've been told I need to be in this now no matter what. Yes it's a male...

Thankyou for being so honest and giving your opinion. I can tell you that your absolutely right about everything except that I like another person. You have misjudged be about that but that's okay. I don't like any other person. Your advice for talking to my parents in that way I have already...

It takes a while for appeals to go through? I personally don't think my parents, my spouse and his parents would even wait that long, especially my spouse, he already had a problem waiting 32 months for the processing time, so I don't think he's gonna stick around longer than that.. especially...

I heard that nikkah only cases are being accepted still. Yes we portrayed a "ruksati rasam" only for pictures. But I didn't have a real ruksati. Then left one day after. And I didn't meet him before the nikkah happened. Only once or twice. So isn't that a very weak application itself? Without...

Thanks for your advice. Yeah your right there still will be a small chance of approval. But what if I don't even write a letter stating I'm not happy in this and just file a normal application , I don't even really have strong proof.. we rarely call eachother there aren't any phone bills on my...

If i write a letter stating that wouldnt everyone in my family or my spouse and his family find out when it gets rejected that it was due to this letter? Or would CIC keep that to themselves, because I could get in serious trouble that way at home.

Thankyou for opinion! your absolutely right , i know that by doing this it can just lead to more trouble, but wouldnt it also put an end to it maybe? parents arent willing to listen. They wont end this. They live here in canada toronto with me. but they wont jeopardize thier honour. That is very...

If i tell cic it was a forced marraige, wouldnt my parents and my family get in serious trouble because of that? If so, I cant do that. Thank you for your reply i really appreciate it.

Sorry guys! I didnt dissapear, ive been reading all the feedback and would like to thank everyoone for responding. I know i got alot of replies that told me to be straight up, tell the truth, tell the guy, tell my family. I would love to do it, and i have done it. Ive talked to my family and he...

What do you mean by it was all for pr?