I have a question about stories matching up from past border crossings (if that is even a thing?)
I am American; wife is Canadian. I've been here for 7 months as a visitor and got married a month ago. Now I'm about to leave to the US on our honeymoon and return a month later, separate from her (she's coming back sooner). We don't have PR turned in yet, slowly working through it all.
Though I'm planning to have as many ducks in a row as I can to show intention of following the rules (copy of my visa extension app explaining we plan to apply for PR, marriage certificate, travel insurance for a limited amount of time, letter of employment showing ties to the US, bank account showing high funds), I'm nervous about my border crossing and them saying I have the intention to live not visit.
But besides generally not letting me back in, my biggest concern:
Though this time I'm going to say exactly what's up (I'm visiting my wife, working on PR), the last two times entering I've been pulled into secondary and I haven't told the whole truth. Namely, I didn't mention my fiancee being my fiancee, just that I was visiting friends. First staying with a friend (her) for a few days, and then moving on. I read so much not to mention a relationship lest it complicated things/give intent of me staying, that I tried to act like I was strictly traveling.
This last time they actually called my fiancee ("friend") on the phone. Out stories matched up of when we met, how many times I've visited before, and how long I'd be staying with her this time (we both said a few days)...but now I'm nervous that there is record of this. And therefore if I get pulled into secondary again, and say this person is my wife (which she is), are they going to look at records and say 'um, you acted like you were hanging out with her for a few days and now you're married?' Am I screwed now if I'm honest?