Thank you for your reply. I will try to speak to a lawyer. My plan is to attend the hearing but I don’t know if I should still file for spousal sponsorship or not. Or if I’m even allowed to and if it’ll affect my hearing
-Yes, you can apply for spousal sponsorship.
-You should expect additional scrutiny of the relationship (as there will be suspicion that the relationship is to avoid being removed in case of denial of your asylum claim). It may be better to get married before the hearing.
-It should not affect your hearing overall.
-I think that you should/must disclose if married before the hearing. And I think it's better for you if you disclose right up-front.
I don't know process or what happens if the hearing goes against you and what /if there's effect on removal afterwards.
Likewise there's a question of whether you should apply inland or outland. I think the correct answer is outland in your case, but not certain.